my parents dont have a problem with it and i know that i shouldnt either but i cant help but feel disappointed in him. he picks me up 4rm school everyday but now i dont want him to bc i dont want him to embarass me. how can i loosen up? i luv my bro and i dont wanna lose him
2006-10-15 15:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just think he is still the same guy he was b4 he told and love him for who he is
2006-10-15 15:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsteelerfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and don't want to lose him, you will accept him for who he is. And it may take some time to adjust to his sexuality. He isn't any different in most ways, you need to remember that. He is still your brother and I'm sure he loves you. But you still need to respect him and respect what he feels. I hope this helped. It might take some time. So, good luck.
2006-10-15 16:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still the same guy he was before he came out?
Does he do anything different when he's around you?
If not, then why would he embarrass you?
Try telling him how you feel, and maybe spend more time with him, to see that he is the same person he was before he came out.
2006-10-15 15:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man I love gay men! Anyway, you love the same guy. He hasn't changed at all, although it might seem that way. Just give yourself time, you'll feel comfortable with him again! He won't embarrass you unless you want to be.
2006-10-15 16:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely initially, your brother is in college so i'm surprisingly optimistic he's optimistic approximately his sexual orientation. there isn't any treatment or treatment. there is quite not something incorrect with being gay, it quite is in simple terms how he's, he probable did not opt for to be gay, yet he in simple terms is. i don't think of you're able to desire to worry too plenty approximately heaven and hell and that i think of you're able to desire to easily bypass away him as is and settle for him for who he's and help him for how he's. each little thing you're saying top now seems such as you're actually not accepting him, yet rather, you're being ignorant and your brother would not choose people who're not helping him.
2016-11-23 13:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and grow up.He was a cool brother 1 minute before he told you he is gay.The words Im gay made you change that fast against him? Dont you ever be embaressed of your brother.
2006-10-15 16:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get over yourself. He will always be your brother. School only counts for anything as long as you are there. Once you are out, it doesn't matter for **** what happened to you there. If people have a problem with it, f*ck them.
2006-10-15 17:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by sixfour76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HES GAY CUZ NOTHING U SAY IS GOING TO MAKE HIM CHANGE SO U JUST HAVE TO GET OVER IT AND TALK TO UR BRO AND TELL HIM HOW U FEEL AND MAYBE YALL CAN FIGURE SOMETHING OUT SO U CAN FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH IT!!!!!!!!! TALK 2 UR BRO
2006-10-15 16:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cousin who is like a brother to me because we live right beside each other he told us last year he was gay and it takes a while to get used to the thought of them being different than the way you precived them before and that is all that is wrong u just thought of him in a different way than he turned out.
2006-10-15 16:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel 9:
2006-10-15 16:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋