So there is this guy that I think is really cute, and I'm really starting to crush on him so.... How do I go about talking to this guy for the very first time? Or should I get a friend to talk to him first? I'm totally clueless here. I'm really shy, so it probably won't be easy. But any ideas at all would be great. Thanks, :)
2006-10-15 15:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by emo_afi_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so I'm gonna completely ditcth the idae of my friend talking to him first. But would it be better to talk to him when he is alone? Like, how do I just start a random conversation with a guy I've never talked to before? Man, this seems so complicated even though it probably isn't. :|
2006-10-15 16:18:25 · update #1
Anyone have any more ideas?
2006-10-15 16:43:25 · update #2
"hi" Might be a good start.
I guess if you're shy, you can get your friend to talk to him first, but I think it would be better if you did.
2006-10-15 15:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Beefy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi 2 him 1st, get him 2 notice u, and then find something u 2 have in common. don't stare or he'll get annoyed. just ask him what he's doing or something and that will get a conversation started. just 1 thing. wait 2 tell him how u feel and DON"T make ur friend talk 2 him 1st!
2006-10-15 16:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your friend to talk to him. That will just turn into a huge mistake. If your shy just go up to him say hi my name is and go from there. Things will happen as they are suppose to from that moment on. Good Luck
2006-10-15 15:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him as a friend...get to know him and then move on to the next step
2006-10-15 15:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there
maybe if you're really shy... try talking to him when he's with a friend?
or maybe go up to him with a girl friend of yours - that way, a conversation can get started, and maybe if your friend could fill in any awkward moments.. XD
and then once you guys are talking, your friend could chuck in a "hey, my mobile's ringing! excuse me.. " and she could walk off... ;)
2006-10-15 15:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck!
2006-10-15 15:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ethan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls suck it up and go talk to him. we r cool about it when someone comes out of the blue and says that they like us. so hav fun with it(flirting helps) adios
2006-10-15 15:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start a casual convo!
2006-10-15 16:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋