i feel lost??

Question

i feel so lost right now i keep stuffing my head with diffrent feelings and i think i am finily starting to explode i can't figure out wat to do i like this guy but i can't figure out if he likes me and even if he dose i don't think it would work out anyway i mean he is like my brother but thats not how i want it to be and at the same time my parents nagging me about all this **** i don't get my sis is being a ***** and i neeeeeeed a boyfriend the school dance is coming up but i am soooo scared to ask anyone out and its killing me....(i've even thought about suiside) cause i really feel that no one likes me and at the same time i kno some one out there dose but i just need to find a nice boyfriend :'(.........do you have any advice about any of this

its not just the boyfriend thing that is bothering me its my parents they don't spend anytime with me its always taylor i just want to tell this guy i love him but i don't no how i'v known him for like 3 or 4 years he actully lived with me for the first year he came to kansas and everyonce in a while he leans over and gives me a kiss on the cheek and somtimes even the lips but still dosn't want to tell me he likes me (if he even dose) but i think the only reson he dose that is too make other girls jelous but i don't no what to do no more.....P.S.he is 3 years older then me

nvm lol i just go a boyfriend

nvm lol i just got a boyfriend

Answer 1

You know what I did when I didn't have a date. I would find all the other girls that didn't have dates either and we would meet at the dance, and that's where I would meet someone...Catch on????

That way I would have a date for the next dance that was coming up at a later date.

Thing is you have to plot.

Answer 2

Mention the word 'suicide' and we all come to alert. You could be suffering from depression and you need to have this checked out with a doctor. Depression is very common in young people with all the hormonal changes one goes through. So, please talk with a trusted adult and make an appointment with a doctor. Tell him/her exactly what you're telling us... that you have thoughts of suicide.

Now, on to the problem at hand. You do NOT need a boyfriend... trust me on this. Relationships at your age (I'm guessing you're in high school) are for the most part a total waste of time (a lot of wasted fun time!). You should be concentrating on your education and what career path you'd like to follow. You should be doing things with your friends (shopping, going to the movies, dances, sports games). Join a sports team or a club at your school. Volunteer in the community (feel the power that comes with helping others). You will have plenty of time for boyfriends once you're in college and or the work world. Ok? Ok! Hang in there - tomorrow is a brand new day!

Answer 3

First of of all, suicide thoughts are never the solution. There is NEVER a good reason to take your life.. You are important, too.
What is the worst thing that can happen if you ask someone out?

The person will say no, right? Is this really so bad? Dating does not kill loneliness. Did you know that? Only inner peace can satisfy who you are. Only God can provide inner peace.

Be patient and ask God to help you find someone that he knows is right for you. Also, talk to your parents about your suicide thoughts. Okay?

Answer 4

hunny life is to short to be worrying about weather some guy likes you. Go out and ask your friend to the dance don,t be scared. Whats the worst thing he could say no. And if he does don,t sweet it there are alot of fish in the sea. There is nothing wrong with you so don,t think that way. Alot of guys are to shy to ask girls out. You need to do the asking sometimes. be strong and just go for it.

Answer 5

Oh my God! The very thought of suicide is way more scary than worrying about a date for a school dance!!! It sounds like you don't think you can talk to your parents about how you're feeling. It's such a shame so many young people feel that way...because we parents were once young too...and probably know more about what you're going through than you think! Please talk to someone close to you....even a school counselor if you don't trust anyone else. You are going through some very normal feelings about wanting a date....but...not so normal about wanting to end your life. Please get help immediately.

Answer 6

well about the guy like your brother i was in the same position my brother had a really hot friend and i knew him so well that he was like a brother to me so i knew i couldent go out wit him but i still always liked him. my edvice to u is try him if u have to have a date but just a reminder being single is still good

Answer 7

Your gona commit suicide because you dont have a freakin date to a dance, maybe instead of being debbie downer, you should smile more and let people know you are avaible, theres probably some guy that likes you and is too shy to talk to you.
Even your avatar looks depressing for gods sake smile!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

ok first calm down stop saying hat PLEASE nothing is worth suicide why dont you ask a boy there isnt anything wrong with you if you need someone to talk to im me email dont talk like that there are people who care ok good luck sweetie

Answer 9

look if you like this guy at school then ask him to the dance
yes don't wait for a guy to ask you ,, and as for your parents well they are your parents and always will be ,,,,

Answer 10

10 years from now youll look back on this and say "WTF was so important about having a boyfriend"? trust me, its not worth giving yourself a heart attack over, and CERTAINLY not worth killing yourself! calm down , sleep on it, and maybe the answer will come to you