I met this girl at a party and we had a couple of nice dates. She seemed really interested in starting a relationship (i.e. talking about future dates and what not). Then, we had a pretty hot night before she went back home. When she got back, we had one date and it was like we started all over again. She was very unresponsive. So, I decide to not call her for a while. I call her about a week later and she hits me on Facebook about how she is sorry that she "confused me" and how " I got the wrong impression". I wasn't hurt, but suprised. I mean, she came onto me. Girls just continue to blow my mind.
2006-10-15 14:56:33 · 15 answers · asked by ima_jabronee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Imo:
Hopefully you learned a great lesson from this whole fiasco...now, move on!
When she comes to her senses (and 9 times out of 10 she will), be polite, be a man of very few words, do not get mad, do not give her a piece of your mind, but rather, blow her off with kindness....((i.e.) 'Hi sweetheart. It's so nice of you to call/drop by...but, I'm kinda busy right now so I'll have to get with you some other time'.
Hang up the phone/close the door in her face and move on!
Sincerely,
The MIDDLEFINGER
2006-10-15 15:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't want any kind of relationship in the first place and when she realized that you were really into her (relationship wise) she backed off because that's not what she wanted...And that was the reason for her being unresponsive.
2006-10-15 22:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interested in the beginning, but after the hot night, she changed... to be honest, it sounds like the hot night wasn't really hot for her & she decided not to pursue the relationship further because of it.
2006-10-15 22:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are the most complicated humans on this planet. Do not try to figure out what happened. It is obvious that she did not like you as much as you enjoyed being in her presence. Hey...move on. Okay?
2006-10-15 22:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well just move on. There's probably nothing wrong with you it's just you probably weren't her type so she made up an excuse on how you got the wrong impression.
2006-10-15 22:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by bluechicken818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as guys get a rap for using girls for their amusment, girls do the same thing. your best bet, ask them strait up what they are looking for, that way there are no surprises. youll be surprised how blunt women can be when your blunt with them.
2006-10-15 22:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanniegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she had second thoughts about starting a relationship...she may have thought it was cool at first...but then changed her mind....we women are funny creatures....hard to figure out
2006-10-15 22:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl did something similar to me a while back. I still cant figure it out. If you get the answer, please let me know
2006-10-15 21:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Savant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some questions are best left unasked
2006-10-15 22:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by docslim694u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must have hurt a BIT! how confusing , eh? ok...i don't know the answer!!
2006-10-15 22:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋