i know the best thing is to wait, but for how long? should u wait for him to come to you, or should u go to him after youve given him some space for some time?
2006-10-15 14:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I read your other question on here too, but now I don't see it on here.....well what I was gonna tell you in your other question...is that I went through something like that with my last bf. He is Black and I am White and I didn't think that my parents would be cool with that since they HAVE ALWAYS SAID "don't date any black guys" well after I told him how my parents felt I decided I was being dumb and I really loved him (he was my 1st love) so I decided to tell my parents. My parents, TO MY SHOCK, were not upset by this. (They had moved to Houston and apparently there are alot of interracial relationships there, and they became more excepting) Well my bf still didnt wanna meet my parents then because of what I had told him b4. He didn't wanna be around people that were gonna judge him based on his race and also he thought that since they were once racist that they still would be. So that was a very sad ordeal and I really wished I had never said anything to him about it b4 talking to my parents...but you can't change the past. NE WAYS also what I was gonna say was that in the beginning when I had told him about my parents (b4 I had spoke to them) he did act a lil distant for a while. We worked through it though. You see it turns out that he was wondering in his mind wether or not he should even bother to be with me(this is what he later told me) because of the whole interracial thing. But after a while of distance (I just left him alone and only called him once and then waited for him to call me back) he told me he realized that I was special to him and he didn't want to be with out me. So give your man some space, and don't bother him, give him a call ask how he's been, yada yada yada, but don't ask where he has been...just say you've missed him the past couple of days, and leave it at that. Then wait for him to realize how much he cares about you and misses you. I know I wrote ALOT but I hope this helps!
2006-10-15 15:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 20:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him because sometimes us men need time to think, but if he doesn't "open up" to you in a week, you should set the tone so that he can feel comfortable talking to you about whats wrong.
2006-10-15 14:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sassafrass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to open up to you and workout his problems with you then you should find someone who will. Communication is key in a successful relationship. Try talking with him and figuring out solutions to your problems or differences.
2006-10-15 14:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont quite understand this but if he is acting like a baby I would ask how he feels and if you should continue the relationship.
2006-10-15 14:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT chase after him!
DO NOT call him!
DO NOT say anything to him.
DO NOT call him!
DO NOT ask him any questions!
DO NOT call him!
Ignore him and he will come!
If he doesn't, drop him like a hot rock and DO NOT look back!
DO NOT call him!
DO NOT call him!
DO NOT say anything to him!
DO NOT ask him any questions!
DO NOT call him!
AND above all...NEVER, EVER make the mistake of taking a sh*t and stepping back in it; it ain't worth it!
2006-10-15 14:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go away for a romantic weekend.
2006-10-15 14:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to him and communicate ....then take time to go out some where romantic and spend time together ,,,,then you can talk things Thru....good luck!!
2006-10-15 14:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been reading "that book" have you?
A few days , then start cooking his favorite foods, the smell will bring him out.
2006-10-15 14:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. He's immature and selfish!
2006-10-15 14:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋