At first this guy made it seem like he liked me,now he treats me baad. I am tired of jerks, i want revenge. What can i do!!!??? Me made me fall for him, before i didnt notice he even existed, and now i feel crazy about him, but it hurts me that he was like that with me. And every single guy has been this mean with me.
2006-10-15 14:37:23 · 21 answers · asked by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to get back at him... He has to spend every day of his life with him and that can't be a picnic. The best revenge on anyone is to live your own life well and be happy.
2006-10-15 14:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Michael F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He thrives on you being upset about his breaking up with you, he's feeding off it. There are plenty of nice guys out there. Maybe the reason that they turn out to be so mean to you is because you might be a little to open, close or clingy too soon into the relationship. Don't give all of yourself to someone right away, be patient and really get to know his true feelings first. As far as the revenge thing, let that go too. You won't feel any better about the situation, it's just not worth your personal energy. You'll be a bigger person not to go for revenge. Just focus on yourself and have patience with yourself, the right guy for you will come to you, probably when your not expecting it.
Good Luck, Sweetie.
2006-10-15 21:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Catma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd seduce him. Slip him something to make him pass out.. Maybe let him drink into unconsciousness...
I know a couple of very mean things that involve either shaving and rubbing alcohol or a digital camera and about 10 guys...
OR you could forgive him and forget him. Which the best revenge is finding a great guy and having a wonderful life with him.
2006-10-15 21:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of, but nothing too major. I near-dated a guy for almost a year, then we had a falling-out, and things between us haven't been the same since. I'd wanted to get back at him for a while, but didn't have much opportunity to do it. But I take my successes where I find them. Read on:
One day this year, I was sitting in the hallway by myself. He came up to me and told me about an e-mail he'd gotten from one of our friends that I hadn't. We discussed it for a minute, then two of my girlfriends came up and started talking to me. We somehow got onto the subject of a wedding I'd gone to a while back. The guy kept interrupting with questions, which I answered briefly, making sure to pay way more attention to the girls than I was paying to him. Within a minute of my girlfriends' arrival, I left with them, not even bothering to say anything more to the guy. And did it ever feel good!
2006-10-16 00:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not help but from personal experience I have always treated them like **** back, when they say something I make a smart comment or I make belittle them in public about the way they dress or look. Then soon when I have moved on or I am not interested then thats when they realize they dont like the feeling and they want to try over again. I dont know thats just me but I think they just like to have the upper hand dont give it to them
2006-10-15 21:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Laprincessa1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time plotting revenge. Find a guy who's a genuine man. By that, I mean one who has figured out that the relationship is all about you. You are a female. That automatically means he should be placing you on a pedastal and worshipping the ground you walk on. If he doesn't, move on. Until you do this, guys will be users.
2006-10-15 21:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're mean because you let them. Theyre jerks to you cause they see you as an easy target to cause pain. Listen be a better person and let it go. You just need to choose more wisely...and dont be in a hurry to find a boyfriend, one day a guy who isnt a jerk will come be patient. For now take this as a lesson learned. Good luck. :) PEACE.
2006-10-15 21:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and find a man who will care about you,and who will love you indeed.Get revenge is play with fire.If you come back to him,he can be worst with you.Do not waste your time,move on.Life is short,so,you need to live happy without this kind of relationship.God bless you and help you to find a really good man for you.Good luck.
2006-10-15 21:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to forget about him and move on. Sounds like you need to find a new place to meet guys if they're all treating you like this. Revenge doesn't get you anywhere.
2006-10-15 21:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time on him as easy as it is for me to say dont get even because 1 it sometimes backfires and 2 you are a bigger person than that live well and just go on with your life and be happy good luck sweetie
2006-10-15 21:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋