Alright just a quick confirmation for my confidence.
Last night, at homecoming, my boyfriend broke up with me. He said it would just be easier for both of us without the drama (us as a couple is a very unpopular idea) and that it would hurt more when I move in a year. Later last night he wanted to know if we would still be friends, and I said it would be too hard. I later regretted that, so today...
I called him back to tell him I was sorry about the friends thing. We ended up talking for a few minutes, and then he said... that he hadn't realized he'd broken up with me until afterward. I find this very hard to believe, just because of lots of little details, BUT... regardless.... is this good news for me? I mean, whether it's true or not, why would he say it unless he planned on going back on it..? What would be the point?
Am I reading too much into it?
Let me know what you think...
2006-10-15 14:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by Kiki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, he broke up with you for sure.
Then he regretted it because you didn't let him off easy by saying you could still be friends.
Now he uses this lame excuse (but oh so typical for guys in all age brackets, even adults) that he didn't realize he broke up with you.
So you can let this go and remain a couple- or you can say that you've decided he was right the other night, and that you're not really sure if you can still be friends, you need some time to think abot it. Then you really should. You should let some time go by where you don't have contact with him, and see how you feel about that. If you're moving in a year, you do understand that staying together after that probably wouldn't work, right? So have you lost anything? Don't tie yourself down in this year. Have fun!
2006-10-15 14:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with a guy i really like one time but 4 reasons I dont wanna bore u with on here, we couldn't/shouldn't be together. It felt very unreal to me that I had just done that, and I didn't realize what I did till after it was over and it really hit me! That's probably what he meant too.
But it could also be that he is just playn games 4 watever reason...because a nice guy would NOT break up with a girl at homecoming! He would have waited till after! That was pretty rude of him and very messed up!
Either way you were right from the start when you told him you couldn't be friends with each other.
Just Leave it Alone and avoid him if possible. If he does begin to realize he truly loves you and wants only to be with you, then make sure you make him work for it b4 you get back together with him, you don't want to let him play with you, only get back together if he is 100% sure that is what he wants. And this is not something he will know today of tomorrow, it will take him a while to be sure of his feelings.
2006-10-15 21:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone. he probably thought he had someone else to fall back on and now he realizes he didn't ... lose him
2006-10-15 21:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have given him a *******, then he wouldn't have left
2006-10-15 21:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he's worth it.. leave him..
2006-10-15 21:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by sugarplumpricess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋