We have been together for 4 years
2006-10-15 14:28:41 · 28 answers · asked by babygurlzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you want and are ready
2006-10-15 14:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by s_ringler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you. If you are thinking about having sex w/ your boyfriend you must feel that it's time. You have been together for 4 yrs. so obviously you can talk to him. Discuss this with him. If he feels the same way... Go for it. Just make sure you are protected.
2006-10-15 21:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ron's wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's not really a question to ask perfect strangers. this is a question that you need to talk to with your boyfriend. you need to weigh out the pros and cons.
are you ready to care for the responsibility of a child if you end up pregnant? think about this on your own, don't let the public, who doesn't even know you or your age or situation fully, make life decisions for you
2006-10-15 21:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on your age and maturity and his. Is he willing to stick around if you become pregnant. Are you really ready to fully commit to this relationship. Be sure this is the guy for you for life. Four years is a long commitment with someone, but are you really ready.
2006-10-15 21:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all just depends on your morals and if you feel that it is the right time. Also, after four yrs. don't you think that you could wait just a little longer until marriage, because you know that after all of that time, the wedding night will really be worth the wait.
2006-10-15 21:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really love this person and you can see your self having his baby, yes u can. I say the baby thing is because anything can happen and you dont want to be laying down with someone and u get pregant and u didnt want a baby by this person. so if u love this person yes u should. and if this person is treating you like a queen you are!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 21:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years!!! Jesus. I'm surprised he's stayed with you so long without getting any. Are you sure he's your boyfriend? He sounds like just a friend to me. And yes, it's your duty to give it up. If you're both of proper age, of course.
2006-10-15 21:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by dyauspiter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think i know this maybe sound dumb but in my opinion you should save it until your married it means alot to your husband that he is the one and only one to "pop your cherry" its ego thing go figure its a guy thing(unless you've already lost it that is)....but if you want to you must think of the consequences you might get pregnant and if he has slepted with other girls has he been tested and are you at risk for n std
2006-10-15 21:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are young, u have a lot of time left to think about this kind of thing...but if you are IN LOVE with him...then i suppose it is okay if u are doing it for the right reasons. dont do it because you friends have done it, dont do it because he is pressuring you, do it because you love him. but again, wait if u are young....you dont want to regret something like this. best of luck to you.
2006-10-15 21:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers on-line, then you are probably too immature for sex.
2006-10-15 21:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age if in love than go ahead
2006-10-15 21:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋