I wrote this letter to a girl after she turned me down after a week. Is it rude? Does it destroy any hope for trying again because i can't get over her.
Miss ________,
Thank you for your answer. I'm sorry for springing such an issue upon you without warning. That much is my fault. But the brusque way in which you handled the whole thing is your fault in all entirity. I mean how hard is it to say no. Althought you intentions were clear from the very outset. You could have, in everyday language, "let me down easy" instead of leaving me hanging for a week. So as a note for the future let people know in a more clearer manner.
I will conclude by saying that I hold no grudge or bitterness for you in my heart and wish you luck in all your future endeavors.
Your's Sincerely
____________
What should i do if i want to try again? I had given her a sonnet the first time.
Also check my last question you'll know why i'm asking this question
2006-10-15 14:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by Crashovdr 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, when will you teenagers get a clue and realize that NO ONE here is going to go scrolling through your previous posts to follow your pathetic love life?
So, having said that, no, you should not bother trying with that girl again. She's rude you pointed it out to her, so why give her a 2nd chance to kick you in the nuts again? Really, why?
2006-10-15 14:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did not behave appropriately to your advances then perhaps she isn't the best girl for yuo anyway. i would have not written the letter were I in your shoes but now that you have, I woul dconsider your chances shot. Think about moving on and finding someone worth your while who shares similar world views with you.
2006-10-15 21:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, both rude and desperate. You're blaming her and telling her how she should behave. If I had received that letter I would have told you to F off. That's not the way to get ino someone's heart.
2006-10-15 21:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why desparate?? Rude? Yes!! Let it go. You pointed out what she could have said and how she said it. You blame her entirely and accept no part, even the smallest. Trust me, try again...get shot down again (probably told off!!).
2006-10-15 21:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are desperate. All the love letters I've written were disasters. Love letters never work. Pursuing her any further will make things worse. Move on and no more love letters.
2006-10-15 21:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mowgli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up and leave the girl alone. a sonnet? i would have laughed in you face!
2006-10-15 21:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother
2006-10-15 21:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋