Basically the girl I like has a boyfriend. With it being our senoir year in high school I want to tell her how I feel before time runs out. How can I prove to her that I am better for her than him, and how do I tell her that I really like her?
I'm a bit shy around her. We talk and she smiles and laughs and even kissed me on the cheek at a dance recently. I just need to tell her how I feel. I am good looking, and am pretty smart, and think that I am the perfect gentleman.
How do I tell her that I really like her?
Is it okay for me to just say that I thinks she amazingly beautiful, smart, funny, and that I love her smile. I almost feel as though she is my soulmate, like we have that good of a connection, at least i feel that way...
I need advice. She has a boyfriend, and I want her. How do I do this?
2006-10-15 14:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her about it. Dont' tell her you're "in love with her" or that you "love her" or anything like that. Tell her she's beautiful and you want to date her, but you respect her current relationship. Good luck.
2006-10-15 14:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you said she has a boyfriend that she seems to be happy with. I think you need to be happy just being her friend. Breaking up a relationship doesnt mean that this female will want to start one with you. If this girl is indeed your soulmate then you will get together if not this year it can be years later. I would keep my feeling to myself because you might get rejected. I have had guys tell me years later(after highschool) that they had a crush on me.Now isnt the best time to let her know.
2006-10-15 21:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.. if you really do love her.. then prove it to her... how?.. that's something that has to come from your heart.. no one can tell you... "oh do this.. and do that.. and BANG!! she's yours.."..
All I can tell you man.. is whatever you have to do.. whatever you need to do.. do it from the heart.. do it on your own.. there is no better way to do it.. than doing it yourself... like they say...
"If you want something done right, do it yourself..."
but I can give you some tips.. I guess since she hugs you.. and all that.. you might let her know that you're willing to take your relationship to another level.. and you can tell her that you like her.. and all.. but make sure you tell her that you respect her relationship with her current b/f and that if she wants.. you will always be there for her...
that's my advice bro.. take care.. and good luck..
2006-10-15 21:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by betodemise46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being fifteen and a freshman in high school... -sniff- I want a guy like you!
Well, if it were me, I would tell her now!!! She may feel the same way about you... and even if she doesn't, what girl wouldn't want to hear that from someone? I am betting that she feels the same way. Just mention that you "know she has a boyfriend, just wanted to get it out... blah blah" Good luck =)
2006-10-15 21:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i would never ever ever try talking to a girl if she has a bf dat me just outta respect the only way i might is if i knew her bf is a complete donkey or abusive in some way other than that i mean i wouldnt want someone knowingly talking to my gf. but anyways if ur just trying to get if off ur chest just tell her i have-had some feelings for u but i respect u having a bf and i just wanna let u know wuts up
now im not a girl but wut i would think is dat a girl would be turned off if u are all up on her if u know she has a bf now if u tell her wuts up and ur not all tryin to get with her then she gonna respect you and know u r a gentleman who likes her; then start considering gettin with u(if shes not already happy with her bf)
da main thing is to let her know u have some feelings for her so she knows but not focus it on her to make a decision between her bf and u
but listen to me if shes a good friend u might wanna keep it dat way a GOOD friend is always there if yall go out and dont work out u lost a good friend not that its impossible to be friends with ur ex but its kinda awkward.
theres no guarantee u r gonna get her but remember there are plenty of fish in the sea
2006-10-15 21:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cnote 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she your freind? Does she suspect you have greater interest? Are you going to the same college? Are you going to college? Let me just say that life gets better you may find someone later on that lights that fire.
If you really think you're bound to be then hell ,.......I say throw out your rope and hook and see if it catches. Life is too short to look back and wonder about the might have beens.
Either way good luck my freind !!!
2006-10-15 21:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by tony a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emailing her or writing a note to her wit ur phone #
2006-10-15 21:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be why hurt someone find someone single.
2006-10-15 21:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNLESS YOU'RE WILLING TO FIGHT TO THE DEATH FOR HER.....WALK AWAY, SHE'S TAKEN!
2006-10-15 21:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋