okay, my boyfriend and I are high school sweet hearts, I'm still in high school, and he goes to college 6 hours away from me. The past 5 months of our long distance relationship have been great. but now he doesn't call me like he used to. I know he plays football and everything and he says he is always sleeping when i call thats why he doesn't answer. do u think thats a lie. do u think hes cheating on me?
2006-10-15 13:54:35 · 18 answers · asked by the1lady4u07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably, but don't jump to any conclusions. It is highly likly though that he is cheating. I mean if your still in high school and he's that far away he's probably found another girl Plus, it's college, there are new girls, new people he hasn't ever met before. Plus he's a guy with raging hormones, so yah he's probably cheating.
2006-10-15 13:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I am in college and there is a lot to study. I play football and trust me, football makes you tired and so maybe he is sleeping. Don't suspect him. Maybe he is telling the truth. If you think something is wrong just ask him or check on him but don't into any conclusions.
Distance does not matter. True love will succeed even if he is on the other side of the world.
I hope he is not cheating and hope everything goes well for you.
Good luck.
2006-10-15 21:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never assume or jump to conclusions. I think that you should talk to him and find out whats going on and tell him how you feel about the situation. He did say that he plays football and also attend classes...believe me sweetheart that can really take a toll on someone. I dated a boy who played basketball in college and before the season started we talked all the time but once the season started we really didn't talk much and I never thought he was cheating....Its all based on trust so I say follow your heart and until you have concrete evidence then don't do anything to ruin your relationship. Just go talk to him...Going to college is a big thing and it do take some time to adjust.
2006-10-15 21:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sexii Slim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is that what your gut tell's you??? some time's your feeling the vibe I'd say bcoz your far away and can't see what he's doing but if you TRUST him then no worries but him being distant would make me crazy to and i think i would start thinking the same, it's only normal, i say get a spy on him, or surprise him sometime..lol in the end he might be just tired from school and playing football, but dont get crazy over it, find something to take your mind off of him something u like doing. Take Care XXX
2006-10-15 21:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College is very different from high school. College can be very demanding(Sports,classes,papers research)of your time. If the calls havent stopped then I wouldnt be worried. Remember he is playing football and has practice along with studying. I know it hard when your away from each other. I think you should trust him until he proves that he cant be. If you feel that you can no longer trust him and end the relationship.
2006-10-15 21:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be so negative, but um yes I would have to say that he is probably cheating on you or on the verge of cheating on you. Or maybe he has just lost interest. Things that I have noticed when ppl start cheating, is that they lose interest in you. They don't make time that they once made. They don't really pay attention to you like they used to. Say for instance they might be more interested in a TV show, or a video game than they used to be. Or like you said they never answer the phone when you call.
PS. Are you representing class of '07
2006-10-15 21:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Zon B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! because being on the football team is tiresome. and if you trust him don't worry. and foremost it does not matter if he go a college 6 hours away, if he was at at a college next door to your school he still could be cheating on you. Im not saying that he is im just saying trust your man!~
2006-10-15 21:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. but the long distance does take its toll on relationships. Have a serious conversation with him. and let him know if these keeps going on maybe the 2 of you should just stay friends. that way you wont be worried if he is cheating or not.
2006-10-15 20:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by sweetangel7898 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say that he is cheating on you because a man can only cheat if he has a girl.you and his relationship was over since the day it became long distance.trust me his head isn't just in the books if you know what i mean.if you don't than yes he does have another girl or two.
2006-10-15 21:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends if you actually see each other and well if he likes being with girls and you know that well i think you would know what he is doing because a guy that flirts alot will always be a flirt but if you know you can trust him then maybe he is tired like you said he is in football and well if it passes a month with no calls consider that as "its over"
2006-10-15 20:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Deadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋