Okay, so i've been going out with this guy for like almost a week now,He's 16 i'm 14 and He says he likes me alot, but he doesnt ever ask me anything about myself, and he never calls unless i text him, reminding him or telling him i'm mad at him. he always forgets, like last night, i called him but he was out skatebording with his friends, and told me he would call me back later. So later happend, and no phone call from him. And even today, still no phone call. I was thinking of calling him, but i dont know if i should. His friends always ask me things about myself, and one of them actually does call me, but my boyfrined doesnt. If he says he really likes me, why wont he call?should i ask him about it? he used to flirt a lot before when we went out, but i've noticed he's stoped since we started going, som maybe he does really like me. but i dont know, is it because he just doenst care, or is it a guy thing?
2006-10-15 13:51:14 · 17 answers · asked by blahblahblah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear you there, you know what i would do even though you really really like him, don't call him, no pressure, as i see it when he wants to call, he will, move on with your life because I'm sure if not his friend there are so many guy's out here that will give you what you need, i mean i'm sure he must just love you calling him all the time and makeing him feel good, well how about you, you deserve the best, but it's up to you not to settle for anything less!!!!! Take Care XXX
2006-10-15 13:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm experiencing this right now with a minister I just met.
He told me that I 'mesmerized' him with my eyes.
Yeah, right!
If I really and truly mesmerized him with my eyes, then I feel that he would at least be ringing my phone off of the hook day and night, trying to get at me and with me.
But, NOT!
So, what's THE MIDDLEFINGER to do?!
Well, I'm not going to call him...ever!
WHEN he comes back this way (and I'm 100% sure he will), I'm going to blow him off with kindness...I cannot wait!
My conversation for him will be something like this:
"Hi...I didn't think I would hear from you again. I'm glad you're doing well. At any rate, I'm in the middle of something right now, so I'll have to get with you some other time."
What I'm trying to say to you is MOVE ON!
DO NOT look back!
DO NOT make a habit of taking a sh*t and steping back in it!
MOVE ON!!!
2006-10-15 15:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes just a little shy, or he doesnt want a personal conversation on the phone because he is afraid he wont know what to say. Im pretty sure he likes you, so dont worry so much.
2006-10-15 13:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose him, yes most guys are the same and are only after one thing, but any guy that doesn't pay attention to you doesn't deserve you. I'm a guy and I think women should be treated as goddeses. Besides you young, don't take relationships serious until you know what you wanna do with your life and your sure of it, and don't let any guy come between you and the things you want.
2006-10-15 13:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by GR8 ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's been really busy lately; too busy for a relationship? either that, or he was just being a flirt and he's not really interested. I'd ask him why he's treating you this way/how he feels about you. If he doesn't seem interested in you anymore, I'd stop the relationship; its not going anywhere and you don't deserve that kind of treatment.
2006-10-15 13:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young too be thinking about these things. From what i know from guys is that when they really like you they will be calling you all the time wanting to get to know you and take you out. I think you should just forget about him and meet someone that really likes you and isn't just playing around. He is young too and wants to be out with his friends playing sports and what not. so don't sweat it okay
2006-10-15 13:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just give him a little longer. because the first time i went out with my gf (we went out for about 3 months) and durring that time i didnt call her that much or talk to her at school the only reason i did that was because i liked her so much and was afraid i would say somrthing wrong and she would get mad at me or even break up with me so after 3 months she finnally she broke up with me but for 2 years after that i was try so hard to get her back but finnaly 4 and a half months ago she finnaly gave me another chance but this time i did talk to her and call her and talk to her at school and now things could never be better and i love her and she loves me. so just give him a chance and even try to talk to him about it. So good luck!!
2006-10-15 14:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, so much drama for a week of "going out". Stop hounding the boy before he hires a hit out on ya.
2006-10-15 13:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its a guy thing....give him some space.....let him go for awhile....play hard to get, pretend you're not interested anymore....that'll get his attention......real quick!!
2006-10-15 13:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just forget him and go on your life. there are a lot of boys in this planet.
2006-10-15 13:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by petito10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋