Im crushing on my best friends boyfriend theyve dated for over a year (i think) and he even told her that he "loves her" HELP ME!
2006-10-15 13:44:24 · 15 answers · asked by allie be , dope ! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way now.
2006-10-15 13:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Crush is the keyword here. You have a crush. You didnt say you were in love or anything overly serious. You need to get your feelings in check b/c you certainly wouldnt like it if the shoe were on the other foot. Shes your bestfriend. I totally understand having a crush on someone. But you need to realize if you ACTED on those feelings what would and will happen. You will end up losing your bestfriend no matter what. So, just think about whats important to you right now!
Good luck
2006-10-15 13:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just deal with it. If it bothers u too much, tell someone close to u and maybe letting it out to somebody close might help. Get to know people. Make new friends. Which will help u to get a new crush. U might not be over him even with a new crush, but it still helps.
2006-10-15 13:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be helped, if they've been together that long you probably see him alot and have become pretty good friends. And you are know falling for him. It's just a phase, there's not much you can do. You could try getting your mind off him by going out with another guy. Other wise, Live and Learn.
2006-10-15 13:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is first evaluate the relationship you have with your best friend. u need to figure out if your feelings for her boyfriend are worth losing your friendship over. Because if u guys are best Friends, if u tell her that u like her boyfriend their is going to be some drama.
2006-10-15 13:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by the1lady4u07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back away from the boyfriend!!! a friendship is worth so much more than a boy.
they will eventualy break up anyway, don't worry. then u can have him. for now, the longer they're together, the sweeter it'll be when you guys are together!
2006-10-15 13:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off it is not good to mess up a great friendship over a boy!
2006-10-15 13:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its toooo late now! If you want to remain friends with your "best friend" back off now! If not your going to end up loosing her friendship. . .Good Luck!
2006-10-15 13:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby if she is your best friend dont do that to her, if they love each other you should respect that, respect your friend and try to forget about it. You will find your soul mate.... which is not you best friends BF.
2006-10-15 13:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by X22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend's are forever. you don't wanna ruin a really good friendship. go find someone else.. there are plenty of guys in high school and college. =D
2006-10-15 13:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by xlilazngrylx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away find someone else, or wait it out if it's meant to be it will be.
2006-10-15 13:46:58 · answer #11 · answered by BLADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋