have been talking to this girl for 3 weeks. I like her alot!!
I met her online and I have not met her yet. I told her a was going to meet her next week and now she wants to meet me as just friends.
But I want to date her and be more than friends.
I told her I would call her back in a hour from now.
Should I tell her how I feel on the phone how I feel or should I juist avoid her and not make plans with her and hope that she calls me wanting the same.
She is a thousand miles away so It is not worth me going that way to just be friends. How do I break it to her. ? What do I say on the phone tonight? ( I have seen her picts and her webcam)
2006-10-15 13:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not be in a hurry or you will be sorry. Continue chatting and as and when you both get a deeper understanding of eachother things will fall into place.
2006-10-15 13:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to move onto the next stage of the friendship... but remember, you have not even met.... physically I mean. I guess if you want a sexual partner than having someone a thousand miles does not seems a good idea; however, if you want a real friend and a lover then you may have to work at the relationship a bit; I may be old fashion, but I will a lot of problem with someone whom I have only talk to for 3 weeks demanding 'something more' on the first date. Anyway, good luck.
2006-10-15 13:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sophia J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go meet her! She may be just as nervous as you and trying to keep both your expectations down to avoid disappointment. Go on a date, friendly or romantic, and see how it goes.
Be yourself and be honest with her. Most people start relationships by being friends. Are you expecting her to fall in love and /or screw you on the first date? Let her get to know you first.
Ask her if she means friends first or just friends forever. Then decide if you're going to make the trip. It's not fair to her to expect her to fall in love with you with out even meeting you.
I wonder how mature you may be if you are willing to "just avoid her" if she doesn't "want the same", and yet you say you "like her a lot".
2006-10-15 13:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is the best way to play things easy by starting out as friends. You have not yet physically met her, so you can never be sure if you really love her. Just play it easy and the best way to start a relationship is by being friends. Take it from me, I have been there
2006-10-15 13:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning on being with the girlfriend you have now for a long time, stay clear of the homewreckers! If you are really not into your current girlfriend do what you want...your young ( I'm pretty sure) have fun!! Ware protection!!!
2016-05-22 05:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you really should tell her how you feel. She'll probably understand. And I mean is she likes you good and if not hey at least you had the guts to tell her.
2006-10-15 13:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she lives far away from you then just b friends with her. you could get some one to b your girl friend that lives near you or that goes 2 your school!lol.rotfl
2006-10-15 13:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by summer_princess_5083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time or money and try for something that isnt there..you will be trying and she will just want u as a friend..unless you tell her how u feel
2006-10-15 13:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by loedinglover88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax take it slow just talk 2 her like a regular conversation be yourself tell her how you feel about her. tell how you feel straight from your heart.
2006-10-15 13:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Angelic Blue Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, but you really need to get to know her in person!!!
2006-10-15 13:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋