My problem isn't that I can't attract a man, I seem to be pretty good at that, I'm attractive, educated, I have a good job and was married to a physician for a long time but it seems like I have to weed through a buttload of idiots...is anyone else going through this? I don't want to give up hope of finding true love, but is it really out there? or am I chasing a pipe dream?
2006-10-15 13:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like yourself I was on a personel site and felt like the biggest loser in the world for going to that measure to meeting someone. I also wrote to a lot of users/losers but there was one lady that really intregred me. We met, began dating and are now set to be married May 20, 2007. So don't give up hope as someone somewhere is out there looking for you also, and when the two of you meet I hope the sparks fly much as they did with me.
2006-10-15 13:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if your single and love your life as an independent person your more likely going to attract men that are independent and self sufficient..These types of men are better to be around in general because they can be a true partner to another self sufficient person that's also content within themselves..I'm not saying its not normal to feel lonely just try to enjoy these times of quietness to reflect and feel good and improve yourself..perhaps the right man will be drawn to a more strong pr essence than the general type of men who really fall short of anything a real woman like yourself could ever need..be patient GO OUT and make new friends..getting to know a few good men is work..and u may also make good female friends along the way..peace
PS: let the man open the door allow yourself to be the lady...Misty~*
2006-10-15 13:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Misty love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hearing ya! I'm exactly the same. I have been single now for about 2 years. I have had two shitty past relationships, but have a beautiful little boy from one. Now I am a single mother. I do believe I am smart and pretty, and I am very self confident, but it is getting past the guys that want to jerk you around, play games and are just d**k heads. I do believe that one day I will find the right person for me. Therefore I believe the same for you.
2006-10-15 13:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 11:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how old you are but you have been married before so.... i too am divorced , now for over 5 yrs, and it does seem llike i have to pick thru the , um, selected ones ,. only to find out this one does not want a relationship but friends w/benifits.... and the ones you want to remain friends with want a relationship with , strange as it may be .
i believe there is someone is out there but we have to find the right one . are we being too picky ? maybe , but thats our right to be , why settle for something you will not enjoy for years to come . how far do you live from michigan ? wanna meet for coffee ? lol
2006-10-15 13:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think I will always be single and that first dude who answered your question is right, in a sense. If you keep attracting the same types of people, there is something you think or do that pulls them to you.
2006-10-15 13:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you aren't settling for the obvious letdowns so don't be so hard on yourself. Remember this: it's better to be lonely than miserable. Loneliness can be cured with a phone call, misery is unending hopelessness, and much more difficult to cure.
2006-10-15 13:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I wonder that at times too. I attract someone, date them then they dump me when I start to want things to be serious and go farther. Some even talk about marrage with me and then when I say yes it seems to end. What do I do?
2006-10-15 14:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by monar_sharyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems lik im going 2 b single for tha rest of my life bc if a guy liks me most likely he is shy and hangs out with me, if i kno that he kno that he liks me but i dont ask him or ask him out or nothin, me and him just end up bein friends.
2006-10-15 13:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I hear you! It seems like the online dating sucks, the dating world sucks, and all the "good guys" are already taken!
And yet, we keep lookin...
2006-10-15 13:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋