i didnt like my friends new wife so i kinda did somethings im not proud of but longstory short theyre not together anymore. but now im with her andi dont like my friend hes still my friend but i dont like him anyways is this a normal scenario or am i alone here?
2006-10-15 13:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by isccariot 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i just want to know if i should introduce her to my friends children of whom i took custody when he went to jail last month
2006-10-15 13:06:25 · update #1
what if i was technically retarded when this transpired?
2006-10-15 13:09:49 · update #2
YES, you did wrong,evil prevailed over you and you committed a sin, now repent and ask Jesus to forgive you and he will.
2006-10-15 13:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats not good. I cant help u with enaything except by telling u that if u want to get over this problem, u need to seek God and really from ur heart ask for forgiveness. If u are just saying "Oh Lord im sorry, please forgive me", then He will not bcuz He knows from ur heart that u are goignt o do it again or u are not really sorry. God only truly forgives thsoe who are really seeking for forgiveness, the ones that are really sorry, and want that sin that they just commited behind htem. Know that after God forgives ur sins, He doesn't look at them when it comes to the time for Jesus to come to Earth and save His followers. He pushes them back and kinda erases them like they were never there. He dones't judge people who are really trying to seek Him as Father and King and Lord,.The ones that really love Him and want to have a relationship with Him.
2006-10-15 20:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're missing some pieces of the puzzle that could be important, but what you did doesn't sound moral to me. Sounds like you acted purely out of self-interest without regard for the needs or feelings of your friend and his (ex-)wife, betrayed a friend, and broke up a marriage for your own selfish delight.
2006-10-15 20:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a sin to get divorced for any reason besides marital unfaithfulness, so unless you commited adultery with the woman, which would already be morally wrong, the divorce was a sinful act.
Also, to remarry anyone besided your first spouse unless they are dead is also a sin. Whatever you did or has occurred is laced with sin.
Matthew 5:32
But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.
2006-10-15 20:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. You say you didn't like your friend's wife, but oddly enough you're with her now. And you say that he is your friend, but you obviously took his wife, and you say you don't like him anymore either. Sounds like your whole story is full of **** to me. And if I had a friend like you, I certainly wouldn't need any enemies.
Let me ask you. If this happened to you, would you be very happy about it. Would you consider it morally okay?
2006-10-15 20:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi - simple test - change the names of the characters so you are the poor dumb husband and YOUR friend just broke up YOUR marriage and is now sleeping with YOUR ex-wife.
You do the math - you don't need a big calculator.
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2006-10-15 20:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't like her when she was married to your friend. But now that you've played some part in destroying their marriage, you do like her. You're either crazy or just plain mean.
2006-10-15 20:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by mocha5isfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Immoral with a capital IM.
2006-10-15 20:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you didn't like her, but now you're with her? What is up with THAT? I second that emotion - glad you're not my friend.
2006-10-15 20:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Glad you're not MY friend!
2006-10-15 20:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋