I have been seeing this guy who tells my friends (and me) that he is head over heels for me. I have slept with him, and now he tells me that he just wants to date casually, even though he still seems to be completly taken by me. Whats up with that? Is this fair or should I be upset?
2006-10-15 12:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too.
2006-10-15 12:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why by the "cow" when the milk is free? !!! Think about it. You gave all that you could possibly give to him - mind and body and he now, says I want to be friends (date casually). Plainly; you has been HAD. Most guys WILL tell a girl who they want to lay A N Y T H I N G to get into her panties. Learn from this experience and don't do it again with the next guy who comes along and gives you "the love line". I feel sorry for you because of all the jerks in this world, who think love is just having a great screw with a girl. I am a guy and am amazed at how girls suck up the "love line" and spread their legs. Later, to discover that he was only, using me! Looking for love in all the wrong places doesn't fit the proverbial "bill"!!! Remember; LEARN from this experience!
2006-10-15 19:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that date casually, just want a friend with benefits. He wants to get in, get up, get out. Dont be used like that. Men dont realize that most woman dont want to be just a booty call, they are looking for more than just a sexual relationship. Find someone more deserving, because this guy dont have a clue what he wants other than sex of course.
2006-10-15 19:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should u be upset.You did it...You gave him what he wanted....SEX....Now that he has got the milk free why shouldn't he just date u casually.Have u ever heard the saying guys say.Why buy the cow when u can get the milk free. Well it looks like u are a prime example.Sorry but I say learn by your mistakes and don't be so eager to jump into bed.
2006-10-15 19:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooo.Im a guy and can tell you dont lose you pride for that just think is better that you find things that way than to realize later that you was only a game all the time and thinking that was a serious one enjoy life dont feel blame or bad for that take as a new experience on your life
2006-10-15 19:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by daniel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not that naive, are you? He got he wanted form you and now he is looking for another victim to do the same. In the meantime he wants to keep you in reserve just in case he can't get from other victims what he is getting from you. Wake up kid and tell him to go to H%&$.
2006-10-15 19:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel betrayed you have a right to feel upset. However, you have the choice to continue in an questionable relationship or move on.
2006-10-15 19:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has commitment problems but he really does like you or he just wanted to get in your pants and now that he has he's not AS intrested anymore.
2006-10-15 19:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, the eternal battle of a slug vs a dog..,.. Sorry, I don't have an answer to that.
2006-10-15 19:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be upset. He used you for sex and wants to keep you available in case he gets horny again.
2006-10-15 19:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋