my bf who i am with now for 2 years talked for 2 months on the phone with his ex gf or maybe more..those 2 months i was very busy he hates his ex gf coz in most his friends opinions and HIS opinion she is a SLUT anyways...he went on holiday back to his country and i couldnt reach him i decided to call her coz ive her nr and asked her to give me the nr of his friend:S so she went all : darlin he is here your bf u wana talk to him? he switched off her phone and later that nite i got his friends nr and went all mad sayin that my bf could burn in hell ....he told me not to worry and that he loves me bla bla bla so he gave me my bfs nr i call him and she picks up she was with him at nite sleepin beside him probably he again switched off the phone...the next day he calls me goin mad telling me ntn happened and that he didnt know what he had to say thats y he switched off his phone...he swore at her and threw her out she turned out to have a bf...am lost donnu what to do my heart is broken
2006-10-15 12:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by sara07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am confused though i do believe that he loves me...his mum called me that she cant wait till he s gonna engage me:S she told me he was planning to do it with xmas..i just dont know anymore..i know that he and his ex gf hate each other but i do know that he loves me i just know...what shall i do?> i dont wana break up really...there goes my 2 years ...but i dont show him much love anymore just to show him what he has done...he actually realized how much he wanted to be with me after he cheated on me...but ntn happened btwn him and her except for talkin but still for me thats cheating...oh godd am lost...
2006-10-16 00:04:01 · update #1
Save yourself further heartbreak and pain, drop him, this guy is poision. If you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life then try keep him if you can; but you know you deserve better than that. There are nice guys out there, find someone who LOVES YOU and wants you to be happy.
2006-10-15 12:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sophia J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he is a cheater. move on girl. you are better than that. get involved in school r something 2 better ur self and forget him. once a cheater always a cheater. u dont need a man 2 validate u. i speak from many years of experience. lies adultry etc. good luck sweety. there is some one out ther just waiting for u.
2006-10-15 12:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gf i know you dont belive that story. the man is straight out lying and deeep down you know it . the guy is leading you on move on hes two timing you let her keep the lying scub bucket before you end up with aids hes not worth it a good guy is waiting for you
2006-10-15 12:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its going to hurt you for a while and slowly you will get over it but you need to just let him go and if he contacts you and asks why just ignore him move on and you will eventually wont feel the heart ache you do now of course he cheated on you baby girl dont let him get away with it not with you anyway
2006-10-15 12:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry
2006-10-15 12:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2006-10-15 12:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋