Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately. Like,, almost everytime we talk, we end up arguing. And when we don't argue, we dont talk like we used to. When we used to talk, we would chat for hours. Now we barely say a few wordz to each other. We love each otha alot and are aware of the problem. We both want to stay together, but we juz dont kno how to make things right again, like they used to be...
2006-10-15 12:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by MAMAZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Daz what we fight about, the fact that we arent the same.
2006-10-15 12:40:04 · update #1
And I think the distance makes it worst bcuz like communication and bein distant is the prob already. so bein at a space, to me, will only make da prob worse... I mean i think it'll make less conversation..
2006-10-15 12:44:10 · update #2
And we're neva really togetha cuz he lives all da way out in a far suburb, while I stay in da city..so spending too much time togetha isnt the prob eitha...
2006-10-15 12:46:03 · update #3
I had and am having the same problem too...i used to be so down and decided to read this book ''how to save your relationship from breaking up'' it helped:D:D basically guys r weird and u both know u love each other so what u gotta do is back down a bit...guys like girls to be cool ...seriously ....they hate it when ur clingy and they come to u when u keep distance i know it sounds weird but when ur the one who keeps talkin and doing he will put 2 steps back believe me...give him the gift to miss you talk to him with love but dont talk to much when u talk be flirty and sexy too if u like...but give him the gift to miss you before you know u guys are back on track and happy again but remember dont b clingy...and back down a bit....they like that I KNOW!!!
2006-10-15 12:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by sara07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from my own experience, me an my bf of 3 years have been tru times like that. An most of the times when that was happening it was because we were spending too much time together. U go chill with ur gurls an let him do the same with his guy frens, the matter would settle itself once you you begin to miss each other that is if u really love each other. If not, sorry but u have to move on
2006-10-15 12:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by swrskitlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought about couple con? if not try that or sit down and see what the problem really is and if it is that serious to fight about all the time. the fighting gets old. sometimes when you be togethe a while tha convo changes anyway. just because you know each otha well sometimes silene is good
2006-10-15 12:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great time to take it back to the early days. Date again. And I mean actually organise to go on a date. If you live together try to go home or to a mates to get ready. get that whole feeling of anticipation again. get dolled up, meet up and pretend like you've just met. hopefully this will remind you two of what attracted you to eachother in the first place xXx
2006-10-15 12:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girlfriend are having the same problem...we constantly fight...i dont really have any answers but i hope someone who's gone through this and made it to the other side does....
2006-10-15 12:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by funnyboard86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk bout the prob
2006-10-15 12:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by ttwinklz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats gone is gone
2006-10-15 12:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral
2006-10-15 12:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋