2006-10-15 12:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by mehecana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Accept it. You don't have to agree with his sexuality, but it becomes a choice of accepting and having him, or not accepting and losing him. It's your choice what to do.
2006-10-15 12:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be for you right now to except that he;s gay, be there for him and love him like he's no different. Be there for him for his support and show him you love him no matter what. My brother came out of the closet about 11 yrs ago and as much as it was a shock for everyone my whole family excepted him anyway like he was no different and you could see all this pressure off his chest and he felt less stressed that he was hiding a feeling. My brother is still my brother and I told him I love him no matter what, do the same for your son he will apreciate and never forget that.
2006-10-15 19:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-15 20:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame on you and the bible beater, everone knows thou shalt not judge . it is not our place to judge ANYONE!!!! and if you do you compare yourself to the lord. big mistake bible beater.2nd-you made him, you loved him as a child all the way up untill now. why change?3rd- the more understanding you are the more he'll listen to and respect your conscernes about protection and hiv testing. all the gay guys i know are wealthy, settled, carefull, men who love wholeheartedly in everything they've taken on in everyday life. if you act different to him or dont tell him its okay in your book, he'll leave thinking you dont love him enough to consider this fact as being part of him. have you ever had someone say well if you really loved me then you'd......? this is one of those cases deal w/ it or take your name off of his birth certificate and tell him to hit the road you will never be able to accept the the fact that he is (3 little letters) GAY. no im not gay i am happily married to a man i love dearly, and hope everyone in the world has a chance to love like my husband and i do. THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 21:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by zoiella000000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need to do anything? Being gay isnt tabu. Good for him for coming out and not living a sheltered , unhappy life. You should tell him you love him and its no big deal.Hes your son and it shouldnt matter to you, really. Is he healthy?happy? on the right track? thats all that matters.He needs support, so give it to him, he needs you to be a parent, so be one. Dont change your attitude towards him for something so minuscule.you should be a parent.
2006-10-15 19:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by cherokee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U cant do any thing abt him now..He is out of control ..He has been flooded to undiscovered destiny..Only pray For him that God diverted him again on Natural Track. No doubt Gays are worst..But he is ur son..with time to time give him learnings and suitable instructions from ur religion because every religion condemn this act thus there must be something in ur religion ,give him overview with time to time(though it wont effect on him(but lets hope))..Second solution may be is Try to Convince him for Engagement to very beautiful and noble girl..Because girls are natural Partners..and if girl comes in his life..Something must be changed, Because woman has alot much Power..
Thirdly dont deprive him..Be with him ..Never leave him..May God call him towards Nature..Amin
2006-10-15 19:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love him and accept him for who he is. That is what you want from others, isn't it? For them to accept you as you are and to love you without making demands to change? Hmmmmmm...
The only thing that makes this different for you is that it's your son. I can understand that, but as we raise our kids, we tell them that we support them no matter what. That we love them unconditionally. That doesn't change because they make a decision we think is wrong, or choose a lifestyle that is "scary" for us because it's not something we taught them or that we completely understand.
He isn't a different person today than he was yesterday...... You may see him that way, but the truth is he isn't.
Love him and accept him for who he is. Continue to love and accept him unconditionally.
2006-10-15 21:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bravo to your son coming out to you. That took a lot of courage and inner strength to share something like that with you. You should embrace, love and understand your son and his needs. Help him in any way that you can, and be supportive too.
2006-10-15 19:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by lakeviewcubbiegal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to agree with his lifestyle but love him and try to accept him for who he is he is still your son maybe look for some groups to meet with that understand what you are experiencing sometimes it helps tremendously just to talk about it or just to listen to other people who have common issues you would be amazed at the people who can talk to you and its almost like they are living your life with you just be there for him as much as you can and be open to both sides of the issue good luck
2006-10-16 08:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by angel afraid and sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me a little while to 'digest' the fact that my daughter was interested in girls. she is 17, and in a relationship with a girl she met at work (she was hetero.) i certainly didn't feel any differently towards my daughter when i found out, my love for her was exactly the same, and i've had to accept that it's her life, her business, and above all, she is happy. that makes me happy too! please don't try to do anything
2006-10-15 20:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean,he's the baby u gave brith to,love and look over him and kept him safe.I thank if u loved him then he's the same person.Mabe u should look at yourself 1st and then think it over again.
2006-10-15 20:15:48 · answer #11 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋