My fantasy is to be mistreated.. like to be bossed around and treated like a bit** or a slave..
does this has something to do with how i feel about myself or something..? what is yours?
2006-10-15 12:27:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if it means you're wierd Jas - i hope not - cause that's my fantasy too!!! LOL - No seriously...i dont think it's wierd at all - that's why they are fantasies....cause it's something that you wouldn't maybe do every day but still it's something you would like to do......honestly you've made me feel a whole lot better though.......i have heard this from a couple of girlfriends in the past too so it's not that odd. I think it'd be hot to be told what to do & treated as an object - i think it's the whole porn star/cheap whore thing that turns me on......naughty naughty girls we are!!!! Trick is to find someone you are completely comfortable with and trustworhty & tell him to have his way with you. Have fun!!
2006-10-15 13:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the correct term is DOMINATED..not mistreated! And honestly youre not the only one out there who likes it.. I Love to be dominated in the bedroom somthing about being tied to the bed, or being blind folded!! that so sexy. Maybe you just want somthing a lil' more kinki out of your relationship. This has nothing to do with you it just means you can get a little freaky some times!! Its very normal..
2006-10-15 12:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummmm. . . yeah this is a bit weird. You should never want to be mistreated or disrespected. seek medical attention or some form of counseling. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 12:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. No I think it is normal, I think like that too sometimes. BUT just make sure your partner is aware that this is only in the bedroom, my ex and I ended up breaking up, and I believe it had to do with our lil "games"....just because he became much too controlling outside of the bedroom! And he just took it to far, but then again we were younger then, I think older men can be more mature about things like this.
2006-10-15 12:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each person is different and therfor i feel what feels good to you is good for you , but may not be for someone else ..i would think we all have some sort of fantasy that would like to be lived out , but to actually have it done , well, find someone you trust and enjoy .i would love to live a few of mine , but may never get the chance .
2006-10-15 12:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fairly common fantasy, especially among successful high-achieving people. My fantasy is a group sex encounter with lots of cuddling.
2006-10-15 12:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a weird fantasy-it's just somethin you would like to try. Everyone has something kinky they would like to do-mine is kinda the same as yours I would like to be tied up-made to do things I wouldn't want to do.
2006-10-15 12:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you angry at yourself? Has someone mistreated you in the past and now you want to repeat it in the hopes of undoing the hurt from the original act?
2006-10-15 12:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by jack b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this is how you feel about yourself. I know as I am a slave to a master. I love it but hate it at the same time.
2006-10-15 12:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't. If you want to see and know how others feel buy any book by Nancy Friday, a psychologist who deals with this area of human nature.
2006-10-15 12:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by wilf69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋