who then use them abd abuse them.
then the women complain that men are scum!
who asked them to be so stupid to for the bad guys in the first place! what about us?! the god guys? huh? huh?!
2006-10-15 12:20:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not always, but u seem like a good guy, congrats. i agree some guys are scum, but some rnt, so i dunno, start a talk show and tell the world lol i idk, but seriously congrats 4 bringing this up
2006-10-15 12:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining because you didn't get what you wanted...women don't ALWAYS do anything, just as men don't ALWAYS do anything...
Chicks typically don't realize a guy is a "bad guy" until after they've gotten together...those guys also tend to have the more dynamic/fun personalities that attract people...
However, you're not finished til it's over so intead of griping about women not choosing you, stick with it until you meet someone who you dig who WILL choose you...
The 'bad guys' don't get every chick they want either...but they blow off the rejection and move on, instead of making an issue of it...know that you are a worthy partner for someone, fun to be with, and when your self esteem is high, people will gravitate toward you...
...they won't do that if you spend much time fussing about nice guys finishing last....if you're not finished trying, then you're certainly not last...
2006-10-15 19:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Some girls go for the bad guys because they think they are not ready to settle down so opt for a guy who they are unlikely to hurt. Some girls just have bad taste. some girls think they can change the bad guys. they see qualities they like and want to change what they don't. Some girls think they've opted for a good guy and then when they are already in love find out they are bad guys. And some girls are looking for the good guys but just can't seem to find them! Hope that helps.
2006-10-15 19:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oi! Look, not all women/girls like bad guys! I sure as hell don't. If he ever beat me, I'd be out of there the next morning. I don't care, I won't stand a guy treating me like that! No, I always get stuck with the geeks, guys that always get in trouble, or the good ones.
Thank god!
2006-10-15 19:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just looking at the wrong women?!? 'Cause I don't go for the bad guys and, although I think a lot of men are scum, I think some women are scum too.
2006-10-15 19:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um...im not with a "bad" guy. Hes actually kinda a computer nerd and didnt know how to dress before we met or be social. You are hanging around or pursuing the wrong girls if this is your take on things. Im been married to my dork for 2 years, im 21. and no, he really doesnt make good money so its NOT that, lol. I just love him.
2006-10-15 19:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by cherokee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient good guy. Some of us are a bit slow, but we end up with the good guys in the end. You just have to stick to your guns and put up with us wanting to be your friend until we realize that we really need you around.
2006-10-15 19:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by fish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, but some guys don't show their true self until it is too late. the relationship went on long enough for the girl to fall in love then he turns into Mr ugly...why they stay I dont know.. There are good guys I know..
2006-10-15 19:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what god guys? good guys? there are none the last time i meet a bunch of them.
some women stay in an abusive relationship because they believe they can't get any better or are to in love with the perverted beater.
if you are so concerned about those women, maybe it is time to prove yourself to one.
2006-10-15 19:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always. Most women go through a bad guy phase then move on and end up with a good guy.
2006-10-15 19:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know- I've always been more attracted to bad guys and I've got my feelins hurt alot to by them! I guess it's the challenge they feel when there with a bad guy!
2006-10-15 19:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋