When I was younger, I was always told that a lady got an engagement ring when she got engaged, a wedding ring when she got married, and an eternity ring on her 25th anniversary.
A few years ago, talking to friends, some said that the eternity ring should be given on the birth of the first child.
My wife says that the eternity ring should be given on the first anniversary. Nobody else I know has heard of this one ...
So, when should the eternity ring be given?
2006-10-15 12:14:57 · 30 answers · asked by Xexyz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Oh, and our first anniversary passed several months ago ... I bought her a ring but it wasn't her eternity ring!
2006-10-15 12:25:57 · update #1
I too believe that it is given on the 25th anniversary, although my dad bought mum hers when I was 10 - that was when they'd been married for 18 years. I think what's important is that it's bought when the relationship is at its most stable and loving and the feelings of the man are truly that of wanting to spend "eternity" with the woman. There's no point giving a beautiful ring if the thought behind it is one of begrudgingly giving a present because it's tradition. Women should not expect an eternity ring, but be greatful when it is given, and know it is a true sign of his love and longevity.
2006-10-15 12:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by sandi_ccc 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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When should you buy your wife an eternity ring?
When I was younger, I was always told that a lady got an engagement ring when she got engaged, a wedding ring when she got married, and an eternity ring on her 25th anniversary.
A few years ago, talking to friends, some said that the eternity ring should be given on the birth of the first...
2015-08-10 13:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eternity Ring When To Give
2016-09-29 22:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An eternity ring is for the 25th, you are right. Some move it up to the tenth - what with marriages being "shorter" these days. For our tenth, is when I got a ring - but it's a chevron of little diamonds to wear below my wedding band, and is lovely. The eternity ring should not be given on the birth of a child, nor the first anniversary - those two are not appropriate.
2006-10-15 13:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
An eternity ring is traditionally given after the birth of your first child. Some people give them for the 10th or 20th or 25th anniversary. Why on earth would you get one after only one year of marriage? That doesn't even make sense.
2006-10-15 21:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thought you got an eternity ring on a major wedding anniversary like, 10, 20, 25, 30 or 40. If you can afford it also plays into the timing. Good eternity rings ain't cheep and you ain't going to get them at the counter of Walmart.
Jewelry at the first anniversary is a good gift...Ruby, Sapphire, Emerald...all great stones that work well in necklace, ring and earrings. All great gifts for a first anniversary. Best of luck.
2006-10-15 12:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You options are open to all three suggestions. You could also use them as an excuse as to why you never got her one for your anniversary too. ;o)
Personally, I feel the anniversary is too soon.
The first baby is a nice touch but you are both dealing with a lot of expense at that time in your lives and may seem a bit extravagant.
I would think 25 years may be a bit too far away, but maybe 10 years is a good landmark in your relationship for it to be a worthy gift.
To be honest though, there should not be any reason as to when or why you give one.
2006-10-15 12:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is totally up to you. 25 years is a long time to wait and I haven't heard that one. First anniversary is a bit early to commit to eternity, as you are still learning about each other. I think you should give it when you really feel you have got to know her and love her bad habits and all and really feel like you will be together for all eternity. Generally you feel like this after seeing her puff and pant and push out your first baby. It's a highly emotional time.
BUT, I spose again, whenever you want to is the best time
2006-10-15 12:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by jewel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, my husband and I plan to renew our vows after like 10 years and buy eachother new rings so we are waiting till then, but personally I prefer the past, present, future 3 diamond rings. I got a past, present, future neckless from him for christmas and an anniversary ring on our first anniversary. I think its totally up to you, but I cant see it being the first anniversary..doesnt make sense to give another ring so soon after the wedding. I got and anniversary ring just because he wanted to get me one...not because he had to.
2006-10-15 16:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a personal decision....when do u think u should give it to her? I think the idea of giving it to her on the birth of the first child is a good idea....but what if there's never a child? The 25th anniversary I think is a bit too far off......maybe the 10th? Good luck!!
2006-10-15 12:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋