what i'm tryin to explain is that i'm talking to a man thats skinny and i'm a pretty chucky gal. and im afraid to get on top b/c i might hurt him or he might not be able to handle my weight so plz help me in anyway possible. i might sound stupid or crazy by asking this question but u never know until u ask.
2006-10-15 12:12:23 · 23 answers · asked by wolfeco_69_amie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DON'T THINK YOU CAN HURT HIM. IN SUCH PLEASUREABLE MOMENT, WITH YOU BEING HEAVY ON TOP OF HIM, HE WILL GET SUCH A GREAT PLEASURE THAT HE WILL NOT EVEN NOTICE OR FEEL YOUR WEIGHT ON TOP OF HIM.I KNOW FOR A FACT, BECAUSE I EXPERIENCED THE SAME THING IN MY LIFE, AND IT WAS THE BEST TIME OF MY LIFE. DON'T WORRY. YOU HAVE FUN, AND HE WILL TOO. I GUARANTEE IT.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-15 12:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by crane1951@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a chunky chick with a not so chunky man, and I was able to ride the black pony. We would make love on the floor which made him more stable and me able to straddle him easier than being on the bed. Go for it. If you can't straddle him, do it doggie style. There are plenty of ways to get your groove on. Don't let your weight be a problem. If it is affecting your overall being then you need to do something else. I had bariatric surgery, now I'm too hot and can ride for days.
2006-10-15 12:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 13:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, go for it. If he's willing to be on bottom then don't worry. Most likely, he can handle you if he's already talking about sex and he knows you're a big one. A lot of skinny guys like big girls so don't worry about the how as much as the how good.
2006-10-15 12:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by mellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell you whether or not he's comfortable. You may not be the first "chunky gal" he's gone out with. If you're on top, you support your weight with your knees; you could try it "spoon" style, "doggie," whatever.
Just like with everything else with sex, you can't assume what your partner will or won't like. You have to ask.
2006-10-15 12:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child Please!!! Take it from a fat sista'. If he really likes you he'll let you ride him. If you're concerned, then there are other ways of gettin' yo freak on without hurtin' him. Like being on top when he sits on a comfy chair, the couch, on a lounge chair is also nice. You can also try doing it with your back to him. Listen to his body language, he'll let you know.
2006-10-15 12:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by dipzet21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try losing weight? i'm not tryin 2 be mean or anything. but how bout he get on top or ask him he don't mind your weight knowin dat some guys like big chicks!
2006-10-15 12:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Angelic Blue Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's uncomfortable with you on top, he'll let you know...there are MANY other options for sexual positions...I sure wouldn't get worried about not being able to do any one in particular...
big gals have sex with thin men all the time and somehow they manage...i'm sure y'all will too...enjoy!
2006-10-15 12:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really must be on top, invest in a harness that you can hang from the ceiling that can hold most of your weight. They can be purchased from all of the usual ceiling harness retail outlets!
2006-10-15 12:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by Brad NZ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sure save a horse ride a cowboy. YeeHaw
2006-10-15 12:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Uhookah2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋