my boyfriend does come, but sometimes he just takes very long... does he not find me that attractive anymore or does that have nothing to do with it?
2006-10-15 12:11:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. some of those times he is drunk
2006-10-15 12:12:53 · update #1
Girl, a drunk screw is the worst screw! It seems like the penis transforms into a pipe and it just drills, and drills, and drills until everything is dried up! Can't do it anymore, it left me like a desert! Tell your b/f to lay off the alcohol if he's feeling romantic tonight, if not it will KILL you! Don't be offended it has nothing to do with you. Some men will drink to make themselves last longer, but it's hell on the kuchie!
2006-10-15 12:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little odd that you would be "offended." Is it about him or is it about you?
Being drunk would definitely affect his ability to have an orgasm. It could be a medical issue. It could be stress, it could be drugs. It's possible that maybe the relationship isn't working and his body is rebelling.
Have you asked him about it? I would start there then go on to rule out anything medical.
2006-10-15 12:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I would be offended. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and he still comes within 15 minutes, drunk or not.
2006-10-15 12:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by not2nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you are having sex with him during the times he is drunk? If anything, THAT is what you should be offended by, and not by the fact he cannot have an orgasm.
If he cannot come, you will have to be understanding. He may be overly stressed.
2006-10-15 12:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever had a difficult time reaching that point? Maybe, faking it just because you get so tired and still can't reach that point?
It has nothing to do with attraction.
If you find yourself getting to exhausted, try keeping the fore play going longer.
2006-10-15 12:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with you im sure. Any girl can do a job. Dont listen to the ones who say its your fault, they just want points. He should relax, stop drinking when you wanna have fun. There are tons of reasons why he could be having problems. Talk to a dr.
2006-10-15 12:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by lil_carebear2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not because alcohol dulls the senses, but why are you two only intimate when he's drunk. I would worry because men tend to climax a lot easier then women.
2006-10-15 12:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by firedragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it.....i would be offended because if the guy really likes me then he should be able to have an orgasm...........maybe u could help him ask him what gets him to that point....if he doesn't after that then don't waste your time there are plenty of guys out there
2006-10-15 12:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just holding back to make it last longer because it's so good or maybe you better learn certin moves to make him feel like he wants to scream and stop having sex when he's drunk that is just so disrespectful.
2006-10-15 12:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he just got it under control i was took an hour to do it what would you rather have 5 minutes or 30 minutes?
2006-10-15 12:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋