I've been in what you could say a long distance relationship---we both really wanted to be with each other but we werent bf/gf. ive been in it for about a year and saw her a few times. We would always cuddle and kiss and all that crap it was the best feeling ive ever had...and in a few months i was going to be living rite near her for college. yesterday when i was talking with her on the phone she told me she just wanted to be friends and that she loves steven(one of her guy friends) now. im totally devistated i broke my phone and threw a huge fit and im in a real deep depression. we had so much together i love her more than anything but i know i will not talk with her again. where i live absolutly no girls talk to me and i do try to talk with them w/o success so now im worryed ill always be alone. im just so confused about life and i feel empty and alone now.
2006-10-15 12:08:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't know if this helps, but since your screen name has a reference to Zakk Wylde, I'll date ya ;)
2006-10-15 12:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing left for you to do but dance! What age are you, like 12? Unless you're gonna die tomorrow, I'm sure you won't be alone the rest of your life. The fact that you had someone means that you have the confidence to chat to the opposite sex. It'll take a while to get over this girl as from what you're saying she's pretty much your first love but believe me, you'll be fine. What you need to do for the time being is get some music on the go, keep cheerful tracks on in the background at all times it'll help with your mood. Or if you wanna let some agression out, get a big head swallowing pair of headphones and put on some rip roaring guitar songs with someone shouting over it. Even if you don't like it, it gets you nice and worked up with the adrenaline pumping. Music is my saviour!
2006-10-15 19:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Die Cocksucker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone new. Just give it some time. You have to put yourself out there if you want to meet other girls. You say you will be living right near a college. Well, look at all the new eye candy you will see. Go for it. You can find someone better who will want to be with you and like you for you. Don't give this girl another thought. (I know it is hard) Get back out there and find a new one. Good luck. I know you feel hurt, confused and empty but guess what? Tomorrow is another day, a day for NEW beginning and things are always brighter. Now, make plans to get up and go to that college campus. You CAN DO IT!!!
2006-10-15 19:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will pass. keep yourself busy with your life and school. make more friends. this feeling that your having wont always be there. shes just 1 girl. there are so many more out there. and believe me when i say that you will love someone again, even more than you loved her. im a senior in college, ive been through it all. life is what you make it. you will be miserable if you let yourself sulk all the time. dont let 1 person change and effect your whole life. its your life. you can do anything you want, be whoever you want. you are an amazing, and unique person. a girl, many girls will see that and you wont be alone forever. right now work on yourself. lifes too short to be anything but happy.
2006-10-15 19:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by amtech33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. it is hard right now because you are uspet. I got out of a bad relationship and no one spoke to me or gave me a hint of even thinking about asking me out. I felt like i would be living by my self with cats for the rest of my life. I got up said F&^% it went for a walk and a hot gut asked me out as i walked by. 4 months later we are still happy and doing well. everything happens in due time. just know she wasn't your girlfriend so you didn't lose any thing except some kisses. When you are ready to move past it you will me a great girl and have more than some kisses and all that crap. Just go out with friends have fun and when you aren't thinking about it BAM there she is, the one for you
2006-10-15 19:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by lisa m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it man, relationships are tough and they always end painfully when they end. I had a similar problem and punched a hole in my wall, and then broke my hand when i punched a brick wall...(don't try that) but you WILL find that person whether you think you will or not. That is the truth of the matter and honestly if this girl could blow you off as easily as she had she was playing you pretty well and shes probably going to end up with someone like her...
2006-10-15 19:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by nicky_8_0_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, if you were her friend, then if she ever breaks up w/the other guy, then she might go back to you.
but as it is, you got no chance if you never speak to her again.
2006-10-15 19:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by tiggergoesbouncebounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. You'll find someone new
2006-10-15 19:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should resolve quicker
2006-10-15 19:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by enord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah. Thats all you ever do.
2006-10-15 19:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋