Ok me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years. We lived together up until he said he wanted a break. he said he love me and wants to be with me and when he's ready he will. He says he doesnt kno whats wrong its not me, and he still calls me and we still have sexual situations, i even still stay nights at a time. But he says he just dont kno. I was even pregnant but miscarried. I want to wait till he's ready but i dont. I'm confused! I love him with all my heart but he jus keep telling me he dont kno. I kno he talks to other females cus he told me, but why do he tell me jus give him so time. Time for what??? i might even be pregnant now! Now if I wasnt pregnant I'll tell myself honey run, but its different being that i might be pregnant. I need some advice. O yea and he loves to say this" I aint going no where and you aint going no where, so jus sit back and chill" what does he mean??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-10-15 11:54:17 · 16 answers · asked by ARMYWIFE 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
He means "I want to have my cake and eat it too." "I want to be free, but you can't." "I want to do what I want to do while you wait for me to grow up." I think it also means "he's a jerk."
That also means: "Get out of there." Don't worry about being pregnant. If you are, and carry the baby, he'll be assessed child support.
2006-10-15 12:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can't help you with the relationship problem, but if you tell me your grandparents' names, birth dates and places and maiden names I'll look up their genealogy for you.
This is the genealogy category. Most of us geezers are past caring about relationships. They do have a category for family and relationships. Questions like yours get 10 - 20 answers there.
It sounds like your BF likes having you around when he is in the mood and doesn't want to introduce his private part to "Ms. Right" (or "Ms. Left", if he is left-handed) but he doesn't want to commit. You can keep waiting, keep hoping and giving him sex until he finds someone younger, prettier and dumber, or leave him now. Your choice. Not all life's choices are as simple as "Chocolate, vanilla or strawberry?"
If loving someone with all your heart was enough to make a strong relationship, Jennifer Anniston would have moved in with me when Brad Pitt dumped her. Love has to go two ways. If it isn't returned, love isn't love, it is foolish.
2006-10-15 13:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is taking a ride on you. He wants to exploit you, as long as he can. He does not want to take any responsibility of a serious relationship with, but he still wants to get every thing out of you. You have been a fool all these days allowing him to do what he wanted to do with you and now let him say that in the most irresponsible way. Please fix him and make him liable for all that he did for you.
2006-10-22 22:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means you are his unpaid hore. Dump the rat. He does what is doing because HE CAN (you are allowing it). Have more respect for yourself. I'm sure that if you had already put a foot down, he would be 'sure.' He either loves you and puts a ring in your finger, respects you and cherish you, or he will keep doing you and dumping you over and over (with a baby in your arms). Wake up!
2006-10-21 21:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by SLam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your are pregnant do not mean that you have to stay and take that off of him. You have time to run now and take him to child support court. And what he means is that he can have you any time he wants you, because he feel that you will not go get any body else. RUN...RUN...RUN. Go get yourself a real man.
2006-10-15 13:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by winnp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means you are giving it to him why should he pay for it? Tell him to get lost!! This guy is just stringing you along look for a real man not some kid playing games with your life and love.
2006-10-20 05:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice look i agree if you are not pregnant get on with it what i mean is find your having some fun,dont tie yourself down because obviously he isnt. If you are pregnant then tell him and then you will have to see how he is going to be and act.I wish you luck
2006-10-22 06:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by woodydandridge@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can not put your life on hold for him. Think about this one--when you are not there who is replacing you in his arms? He is just using you. It does not matter if you are pregnant or not--you do not have to be with him for him to support the baby he fathered!!
2006-10-23 05:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by jaspers mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants both. He will play around and then come back. He is not willing to give you a commitment. I would tell him to take a hike.
2006-10-23 11:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by little big boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, don't go out with anyone for a while, and don't have sex with them. Find out who you are, and what you like instead of catering to others. take time for yourself FIRST. Maybe even seek counceling.
2006-10-22 00:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋