we spend every moment together, and we basicly already do live together. but still making it official kind of makes me a little nervous.
2006-10-15 11:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on both of you. by the sound of it- there should be no problem. i been living with my boyfriend for about 6 months now- but at the beginning i moved in and out for awhile because i wasnt ready for it- but now living with him was and is the best decision i have ever made.
2006-10-15 11:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find living together to be a waste of time. If it doesn't work out and ends ugly there are usually legal problems. If you are doing this to get an idea of married life and see if you will work out - it really isn't a true test. You both have the option of throwing in the towel very easily. With no strings attached (legal marriage) there is nothing to force you to work on your relationship if problems do arise. Marriage is hard (I have been married for 19 years in March) and takes work. With our society being an instant gratification, throw away society, it is really simple to say that things are tough, why try and move on. I think you need to consider how long you have been together, what both your future goals are and if just living together makes you nervous where is the relationship going. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 18:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by KahneDame 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I moved in together after only a month, just like the person who answered before me... you will know if it is right, and you won't have any doubts whatsoever. If you're nervous because you may have a little doubt, listen to your heart and don't jump ahead if you're not sure
Hope this helps
2006-10-15 18:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long have you two actually been dating? if under two months, i would say no way. But it's all up to how your relationship feels. I know people who have gotten married after a month of dating, and still married today 8 years later so each relationship is different. Just be cautious...keep your stuff separate, like bank accounts, cars, etc...just in case something does happen you can keep your stuff because it clearly states it's yours. :) Good Luck!!
2006-10-15 18:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~*StAcY*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved in with my girl after about a month. Too soon? No way. You know if it feels right. Of course you are nervous! It is an exciting phase. I say go for it!
2006-10-15 18:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Brad NZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no babe, move in with me
2006-10-15 18:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by pee1listener 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋