Ok, i went out with this guy,we were really in love and everything was going great,until our 6th month toghether he cheated on me,so we broke up.We still really loved each other but he got a nasty little guilt complex,we kept talking for a year,then we stopped talking for a while.like a moth after the last time we talked i started to get a crush on a new guy and a few weeks later we were a couple,he treats me well and he really cares about me.the thing is that i started talking to my ex again,i still love him and today he told me he still loves me and started crying and apologizing for not acting sooner,I'm so confused,i dont know what to do,i dont want to hurt my current boyfriend but i want to be with my ex.Please give me some advice,I really need it!Thanx in advance.
2006-10-15 11:37:17 · 10 answers · asked by rica_arena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There Are alot of times im not even atracted to the new guy,he kind of bores me and ill find any excuse to get away from him
2006-10-15 11:54:04 · update #1
also, about him being single and all that, my ex has a few girls chasing him,he says they just dont compare to me.i wanted to give myself the chance to fall for the new guy but i find myself thinking of my ex alot and i flirt with other guys, i cant help it.me and my ex have always had a deep friendship,way before we were toghter,but my current relationship doesnt have that,were barely talk, its so frustrating,we have little in common.
2006-10-15 11:59:45 · update #2
tough situation.
if you really love your ex,
its unfair to your current boyfriend to stay with him.
however, be careful because your ex may not have changed,
its definitely possible that he'd cheat again if you went back to him.
2006-10-15 11:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by girl. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that you have to really think about, because your ex, is your ex, for a reason, and don't you forget that. This is how life is, just as soon as things go your way, something or someone, comes into your life to put obstacles in your way. The thing is, that the decision you make, whether it is the right decision or not can change your whole life! You need to weigh your options. I think you should stay with your present boyfriend, but only you can make that decision,
2006-10-15 11:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually simple. he cheated on you once which means he will probably do it again. If you actually loved you like he says he would not of cheated on you in the first place. He is probably talking to you again because he is single again and doesnt want to be alone. sorry if that hurts but he doesnt love you as much as he says. If it was true love he would never cheat on you. You deserve better. Tell him you might be able to be friends but thats it and you have a boyfriend.
Goodluck
2006-10-15 11:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by owencats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go back to someone that you already know wouldn't think twice about cheating on you after a mere 6 months?! Don't you deserve better than that?
2006-10-15 11:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with ur current never go back to an ex.
2006-10-15 11:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your current boyfriend the whole situation because u need to be honest with him about your feelings.. and then take from there after your current bfriend tell u his feelings/ opinion, but i think u should get back with your x
2006-10-15 11:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by nia r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy..tough ques. well i think if u luv ur ex nd he luvs u and u know he regrets wat he did honestly den u should give him a chance. but if u luv ur current bf nd he luvs u den u should stay wit him. but if u think ull have a better life wit ur ex den BE WIT HIM! lifes short! u should have fuun!i think ur current bf would be happy if u told him da truth..he should be! anyways...good luck..hope u make de right decision! :)
2006-10-15 11:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex did that to you before there is no reason he wont do it again..men are always cheaters and will never be contented with one..keep the new one gurl!!..
2006-10-15 11:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by too pretty to handle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the cheating bum and keep the new guy
2006-10-15 11:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by james c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something totally up to you.
2006-10-15 11:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by MrSmarT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋