Ok me and my boyfriend been going together for about two years i regualry talk to his mom and its sumthin real important that he didn;t tell me, she told me why am i always the last one to find out stuff. How should i go about this what should i say to him
2006-10-15 11:30:46 · 18 answers · asked by !!yentruoc!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 2 yrs you should be able to communicate well...talk to him about it...ask him why he didn't tell you and why he keeps other things from you as well...
Communication is part of your relationship foundation...without that, things aren't going to work well in the future...
2006-10-15 11:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is that important an issue to you then you might should clear the air about it....if not then i would not mention it unless you just want to find out....remember our past is our past and maybe there is some things we all do not tell our boyfriend about....but i agree 2 years you should know about all there is to know about him....
2006-10-15 11:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not tell him that you know. I am not telling you to lie to him but for you to wait till he is ready to tell you. If you tell him that you know he may lose trust in you,think that you dont trust him,feel like you are checking up on him and all of this could casue a problem in your relationship. Also if you let on to him that you know this may cause a problem between you and his mom.Just wait for him to tell you
Good Luck
2006-10-16 00:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If your boyfriend is keeping important information/ secrets from you, find a new boyfriend.
2006-10-15 11:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by rosemary H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You been going out long enough and you souldn't keep things from your partner. I'd sit him down and flat out tell him.
2006-10-15 11:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first wonder why she told u that.Since we don't know what it is he didn't tell u then I can't comment on it.But if it's about his family he is probabley trying to spare u.
2006-10-15 11:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt told he then he doesnt want you to know yet or he is not ready to tell you or doesnt want you to feel hurt whatever the reason just wait untill he tells you,
2006-10-15 11:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a problem between your boyfriend and his mom. she shouldn't bring that on you. tell your boyfriend how your mom feels and encourage him to be more open with her.
2006-10-15 11:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted to wait and tell you at the right time
2006-10-15 11:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a big issue...then be straightforward with him......don't beat around the bush......Good luck!!
2006-10-15 11:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋