long story short. I found out my husband have known this girl since she was 16 she is now 18. He said he know her from the neighborhood his cousin live, o;k I really trusted my husband, and I thought o:k why do she have your cell #.Then at that point I went blank. There is no way my husband could be having affiar with this person, so I decided to call her, she swear he was just someone to talk to, he is friend, I ask if they ever had sex she said no. it wasn't like that. he swear he wasn't having sex with her, he called talking to her as just something to do. now by her being so young i decide to call her mother, i told her i needed her help to find out if my husband was sexually involved with her daughter.She called on 3wy she admitted to knowing him, but said he never tried her like that. and that she knew he lived with his old lady, she said. He don't consider knowing her, and talking to her cheating,he said it was only 3min conv. about B.S. I saw no signs. What do I do. Going Craz
2006-10-15 10:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
A 18 year old girl has no business having a married man as a friend and vice versa. She either needs to get friends her own age to confide in or find a therapist. As far as your husband using the excuse that he just talks to her because he needs something to do is ridiculous. They are both now aware that you are upset about this and this friendship needs to come to a screeching halt.
2006-10-15 10:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray about it. Take all things to God in prayer. If you believe in him and believe that your answer will be answered then the truth will be revealed. What you must ask yourself if you really want to know the truth and what you would do with it when you got it...(if it turned out to be negative.) I caught my first husband in bed with his 12 year old cousin. I left him. But I wished now the family would have prosecuted him. Sometimes I wonder if he will be one of the guys on dateline. Anyway try not to worry and take your burdens to the Lord and I promise he will carry them for you. I will pray for you also that you will have a posative outcome and that everything will turn out to ok.
2006-10-15 10:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by mindy p.m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what advice god would give you, but as a woman I say keep a close eye on that man. If there's a question, then there is no question. I don't know any grown man that would be friends with a child who is a stranger to them. Be careful as to not believe a person's response when faced with that type of question. The truth is probably far behind your question. I don't know about him. You decide.
2006-10-15 10:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by black orchid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biblically it is deemed temptation. Your husband is to stay away from situations in which he may be tempted by his own sin nature to sin.
Having a relationship with a woman or her daughter or both, without involving you in the relationship is really inviting temptation into his life.
Biblically he should respect your wishes and eliminate this relationship from his life. He is to put his wife and family ahead of himself, but behind his relationship with God.
If he truely is trying to help this family in some way, he would need to involve you if you wanted to be involved.
You may need to involve your pastor if your husband will not listen to your feelings in this issue. Be calm but direct, do not leave room for him to say that you told him he could do what he wanted.
2006-10-15 10:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by cindy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds similar to another situation. when a friend of mine was helping a girl with her schooling and his wife thought there was more to this than met the eye. would suggest patience as there will be proof show up one way or the other sooner or later
2006-10-15 10:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there were a God, he'd probably strike them both dead with lightning.
2006-10-15 10:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by eantaelor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he existed, he'd probably warn against those people claiming to be his followers. They are idiots and frequently dangerous.
2006-10-15 10:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by nondescript 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i thought he did in the old testament bible,if betrayed u are free for the devorce.
2006-10-15 10:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by mak_nit_crimson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋