I JUST RECENTLY LEFT A BAD SITUATION AND I AM TRYING TO MAKE UP FOR IT I HAVE APOLOGIZED I HAVE GIVEN MONEY I HAVE HELPED IN ANY WAY I KNOW HOW. LET ME BACK UP I WAS LIVING WITH MY BROTHERS GIRLFRIEND AND HER SON. MY BROTHER HAD PASSED AWAY IN 2005SO I STAYED THINKING IT WAS MY OBLIGATION AND TO HELP HER. WELL SHE BECAME VERBALLY ABUSIVE TO ME ONE DAY SHE WOULD BE NICE THE OTHER DAYS. I WOULD TAKE MY NEPHEW PLACES AROUND MY FAMILY AND OTHER PLACES. WELL I DID ALL OF THIS ON THE BUS LINE AND CAB UNTIL I BOUGHT MYSELF A CAR. THEN SHE WANTED ME TO TAKE MY NEPHEW EVERYWHERE. SO I JUST HAD ENOUGH AND LEFT. NOW SHE IS SAYING I DID NOT PAY MY HALF OF THE RENT WHEN I KNOW I DID. CALLING CUSSING AND CLOWNING ON THE PHONE WHAT DO I DO?
2006-10-15 10:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by muggy1970 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry to hear that. some people just want constant hand outs. you did what you thought was best. she is not your responsibility. not even the child. however, do whatever you can for that little guy. he will always need a proper role model.
and if she is seriously verbally attacking you and doing any kind of threats, babe, you can and should press charges. if you do not feel safe around her, then please start thinking how safe that little boy isnt either. think of that little guy, and get him out of there. she is obviously not in a stable enough condition for that child.
verbal abuse is bad. she was very dependant on you. and that was wrong. you helped, and she needs to cover her own - and take on the responsibilty head on.
i am sorry her husband, your brother died. and if she is having that hard of a time adjusting not having him there, she needs counseling. she may be finally grieving...who knows.
you apparently were right there when he died, and she was seeing him instead you. again, just brainstorming. instead of pressing charges, suggest counseling, from a local church. and see what she says. approach this matter as positive as you can.
pressing charges may only worsen the situation. but keep it in mind if she does not agree to counseling and gets worse.
think about it. good luck. keep your family close. and always let her know you want to help, but she needs to want it and ask for it. she may be seriously hurting inside, and doesnt know how to release it.
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2016-10-16 05:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an unlisted number. If you have a cell phone, turn off the ringer on your regular phone,
it is there for your convenience, not hers. By the way, is your name on the lease? If not, you have no obligation.
It was good of you to do what you could for your bother's girlfriend and your nephew. If she doesn't appreciate what you have done, move on and find someone who does appreciate you.
2006-10-15 10:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Big Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll were'nt married you don't owe her anything you did what was right unless you slept with her if so your a dog if not it was very commendable of you to pick up where your brother left off but I wouldn't pay her anything if that's all it was. Like I said if ya'll were sleeping together yeah you should. but just let it go change your number or turn her in for harrassment!
2006-10-15 10:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was really nice of you to try to stay and help. but maybe you over stay your welcome. you know that you paid your share so i would not worry about it. if she keeps calling, let her know once and for all that you did what you could for her and her son and feel that your obligation to them is over and that if all she want to do is call and scream then you don't want her calling any more. and that you are sorry she feels this way. and if it continues get your number changed.
2006-10-15 11:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the best thing by moving out. Now do the smart thing and change your phone number.
2006-10-15 10:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be hard to do, but have you tried to ignore her. just like you made up your mind to stop taking your nephew around, you can also stop all communication, if you want to.
2006-10-15 10:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2006-10-15 10:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by yblur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a problem and she needs to deal with it. You can not solve this one.
Bless you for your heart.
2006-10-15 10:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by alilovespete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a nice girl and get married and you will live happily ever after
2006-10-15 10:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋