If you change him, make sure to call him dirty and look away.
Might as well scar him for life while you're at it.
2006-10-15 10:42:05
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answered by ModerndayMadman 4
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I would not let him change any babies diapers, just suppose he touch or wipe the baby to hard, that is not the right kind of punishment ,if I were a parent with baby in the nursery and a 13 year old was changing or caring for them I would report that nursery, give your son a sign and let him walk in front of the church Sunday morning saying,I STOLE DIAPERS FROM THE
NURSERY,or do you think he has learned his lesson
2006-10-16 03:14:28
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answered by elizabeth_davis28 6
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I think it is very reasonable. He could have been given a lot worse for what he did. He is lucky it was a church nursery instead of somewhere else that may have reported him to the police or something like that where his punishment could be more severe.
Maybe if he has to go to the nursery and be treated as one of the kids he will know what the consequences of his actions would be.
I would hope he would learn a valuable lesson from the experience and maybe teach him some responsibility.
I would also ask him why he wanted the diapers. Does he want them for someone that is needy and couldn't afford to buy them? In that case then he just needs to be taught how the church deals with people that have that and other types of need.
If he wants them for himself to wear then you need to figure out why. Does he have a problem and need to wear them or does he have a desire to be in diapers again? He may have too much stress in his life and wants to go back to a time when he didn't have to worry about anything, back to when he was in diapers and every need was taked care of for him and he didn't have to make decisions.
Talk with him and find out what is going on in his life, it sounds to me like you may be out of touch with him a little bit too much.
Good luck and may God bless all of you.
2006-10-15 14:11:54
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answered by wetsaway 6
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Do not make him wear diapers and definately you do not need to be changing him. He is 13 give the kid some privacy, modesty, and a little respect. You are dealing with creating major sexual hangups here. Did you ask why he stole them? Do you know what he plan to do with them? Have him apologize, work in the nursery for a day and learn to change diapers (under adult supervision) Then find out what was in his mind on this and see if you need to help him here.
2006-10-17 08:32:27
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answered by Geo 6
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The diaper thing is definitely abusive, but doing chores for the nursery is certainly reasonable. Also, ask him why he stole diapers in the first place.
2006-10-15 16:52:14
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answered by Linda 2
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Focus! You are concerned about the punishment instead of the cause. Why did he take then in the first place?
If you try to protect him from the punishment, he will expect you to do it all the time. The punishment should be enough to let him know it is wrong to steal. If he learns from this, he will be a better person in the future. Love him and punish him. Do both equally.
2006-10-15 13:35:16
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answered by ageless 2
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i think of that is extremely sensible. He might have been given lots worse for what he did. he's fortunate it become a church nursery extremely of someplace else that would have reported him to the police or something like that the place his punishment must be greater extreme. perhaps if he has to pass to the nursery and be dealt with as between the youngsters he would understand what the end results of his movements could be. i could wish he could learn a useful lesson from the journey and maybe instruct him some accountability. i could additionally ask him why he wanted the diapers. Does he want them for somebody it quite is needy and could no longer take care of to pay for to purchase them? if so then he in simple terms needs to learn the way the church deals with human beings that have that and different varieties of want. If he needs them for himself to positioned on then you definately ought to confirm why. Does he have a challenge and could positioned on them or does he have a prefer to be in diapers lower back? He might have too lots rigidity in his existence and needs to pass lower back to a time whilst he did no longer ought to rigidity approximately something, lower back to whilst he become in diapers and each want become taked care of for him and he did no longer ought to make judgements. talk with him and discover out what is going on in his existence, it sounds to me such as you're out of touch with him basically a splash too lots. reliable success and might God bless all of you.
2016-10-19 11:05:24
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answered by ? 4
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what is his favorite thing(s) to do. if he is big on computers take it away same for internet usage, make him wear the diaper- he wanted/needed them so bad to steal it, he should make use of it. you are right. dont let up it is embarrassing; prove your point but wear the diaper over the clothes to show everyone what he did. when he is ready you will know.
well i read through it again if he had an accident then the apology was enough but next time ask.
2006-10-15 10:41:42
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answered by fyrbug502 2
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the apology was enough that is abusing of him and making him feel ridicules if i was you i would go talk to them because for just steeling diapers you get that kind of punishment it's over the limit
now it's your decision but if i was you i would go talk to them
2006-10-15 11:41:43
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answered by Anonymous
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my mom forces me wearing diaper age if 27 year old I like it wear diaper
2015-11-06 17:52:41
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answered by Lorenzo 1
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yes, it is a very acceptable punuishment. Why in the 1st place was he stealing diapers anyways? You should ask him about this incident before you do anything else.
2006-10-15 10:36:43
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answered by cavswitness23 2
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