I recently had 2 "step" brothers move in my house, about 3 months ago, befor they came, me and my mom had the best relationship any mom and son can have, but **** has changed. My "step" brother has taken over, now there the best of friends, and i hardly talk to my mom now, what should i do? it's really hard now, because my mom was the only one i could really talk to about anthing, and now, i can barely say 1 sentence to her without my "step" brother getting in the way.. my life is meanigless now, i have no one to talk to about anything now.. im real lonely, please help with any advise
2006-10-15 08:52:35 · 7 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkevin 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Nothing will change unless you talk to your mom about how you feel. If you can't for some reason, print out what you just wrote and give it to her or leave it in a spot only she will find it.
2006-10-15 08:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other answers are good ones. Your Mom is probably trying to make the steps feel comfortable and at home. Maybe in the process she has over compensated and doesn't realize she hasn't been spending as much time with you. Like the others have said, just get her alone and tell her how you feel. If you've always had a good relationship with her she will listen to you and adjust accordingly. Your mom loves you, she just has to spread it around a little more now. It will work out for you....after all she's your MOM'S.
2006-10-15 16:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by valducci53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you Mom is alone, tell her you miss the relationship you shared before the brothers arrived. Tell her you feel like you are being pushed aside. Sometimes the obvious needs to be shown. Mom probably thinks she is paying you plenty of attention.
2006-10-15 15:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely you are going to have to get use to this. You have gone from an only child to having a whole family. You should talk with your mom but keep in mind that your mom have to deal with 2 new additions to the family and it is going to be impossible to give you her undivided attention that she use to. You can always try to get some friends that are your age.
2006-10-15 16:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rod is the coolest guy I know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her you need 15minutes to 30 minutes from her without interuption.
Talk to her how you feel, If your mom is a smart woman, she will correct the situation right away
2006-10-15 16:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hoa N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your feelings with your mom, after all you are her son. Tell her about your feelings of lonliness, how life is meaningless to you. However hard it is, please approach her or you will continue to feel this way.
2006-10-15 16:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by been there, done that 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pull your mom aside & tell her how you feel-
2006-10-15 15:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋