I don't want to loose him as a friend as we have the kind of friendship that he can say anything and i can also say anything to him.
2006-10-15 08:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by sexy_female_servant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ooh... I know exactly what you're going through. I think a lot of people have gone through the same thing. And it is hard. I guess the best advice I can give is... which would you regret more? Telling him how you feel and losing him, or never teling him and never knowing if he feels the same? It is not an easy question. I know from firsthand experience. I risked losing one of my best friends in the world when I told her how I felt about her, but now we're dating. Things worked out well. But I knew when I told her that she might not react well, that I might lose her. I simply couldn't live with never knowing. I hope that this works out for you, whatever you decide to do. Good luck!
2006-10-15 08:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered your own question, "we have the kind of friendship that he can say anything and I can also say anything to him." So tell him already!! If he feels the same great!! If not, you have the kind of friendship that shouldn't be affected by an admission of this nature. Go for it, it could be the best thing that ever happened to you!
2006-10-15 15:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you are feeling on this one i was in the same situation myself we had a relationship like a bf and gf but without the kissing and s*x, we slept in the same bed, we used to cuddle up on the sofa and watch the telly and all the other stuff, i don't know if he ever felt the same as i was to scared to take it a step further in case i ruined it all, and i was scared of the rejection if he didn't feel the same, one of the worst things about it all is that he is my best friends brother and they have had a big falling out and don't speak to each other, could you imagine if it had of gone any further, would i loose him or my friend, then he got a gf which took a bit of the worry away but now i don't see him because she is jealous, id say its best to keep the friendship you have got and don't get hurt.
good luck to you whatever you decide to do
2006-10-15 16:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by margie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An unrequited love can be the hardest love of all to bear. Is it worth losing the friendship if things don't work out?
2006-10-15 15:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by MGN2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, but i have decided to keep quiet as i don't want to risk losing the friendship. i'd rather have them as a friend than not at all.
2006-10-15 15:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by cozzylizzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, go out with him, im sure he feels the same way too, but before hand make sure to agree that the friendship will continue on if the relationship fails.
2006-10-15 15:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Once i had a really good friend who was a girl who i had fellings for, but I kept my mouth shut, only to find later that she had really strong feelings for me, but was already involved with someone else. Learn from my mistakes.
2006-10-15 15:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by bacon_bits23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Which is worse...risking losing him as a friend or risking not having what you might be able to have with him?
2006-10-15 19:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by RichardLeB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no.....don't get with him cause you will kill the good friendship..........there is this boy that likes me and Iam not gonna get with him cause it would kill are friendship.
2006-10-15 15:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall can say anything then just tell him how you feel
2006-10-15 15:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋