ok.. i have a bf, and i really like him but i dk 4 sure if he likes me, he'll talk 2 me forever at lunch and breakfast & on msn messenger but he'll never talk 2 me on the phone, he invites me 2 go out with him 2 a movie and stuff, its just that i am really a phone person and he wont call me no matter what, and when i call him he makes up an excuse 2 hang up or somethin.. he tells me he loves me and i love him 2 but i dk what i should do because i dk if he really likes me or what.. have any ideas on how i can call him without embarrising myself or how i can get him 2 like talkin on the phone?
2006-10-15 08:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Higgly Wiggly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's not a phone person. Some people aren't, they feel more comfortable face to face or texting or chatting on the messenger.
2006-10-15 08:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by sweetshanz88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that i don't like talking on the phone much so i make up excuses too but that's because i feel like i can't really say anything because i might say something stupid or something like that that's probably how he feels i'm sure he loves u but take it slow because if it goes too fast then u'll scare him away u know what i mean I'm just saying that he might love u now but wait till there is another hot girl that comes around he might dump u and he might not i've had alot of experiences at this stuff and another thing that don't say anything or do anything stupid that might make him leave u like if he says something mean don't run away from him like i did because that's what happened to me he left me cause of that and other things i did, u have to be very careful in a relationship cause you never know what will happen next.................i hope my experience and advice helped and i hope things work out for you oh yeah one more thing about the phone just ask him why he makes an excuse to hang up and then start talking from there get him into a convo.[conversation] just start telling him about your relationship with him and how he would like to be more enthusiastic in it tell him how u feel about it and move on from there just pick an idea from ur head to start talking about and tell him that there's an event coming up like a halloween parade u would like to go to with him and ask him to go with you and tell him about how fun it might be and stuff.............i really hope that helps
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2006-10-15 16:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply ask him what his problem is? some people are just not the type of people who like to talk on the phone. When ever he is a round you try and read him. Find out if you two are really exclusive or not. you can tell. body language, the way he talks, Is he seeing anyone else? Just find out. maybe try avoiding him, and see what you find out. Keep it real. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 16:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you like to talk on the phone and say ok since we do all these things together lets start talking on the phone. He should understand hopefully lol. You have it alot better me and my bf talk every nite on the phone and i end up makin excuses lol bad me anyways i hope that helped!!!!!!
2006-10-15 16:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Neesaxxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people aren't phone people. I don't know why but some people aren't comfortable on the phone. Give him a break! Also---if you love someone, you shouldn't be afraid to make a move or do something around them.
2006-10-15 15:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the big deal about the phone?? he does not like it so you should except that. he talks to you in any other way possible.stop being childish, if you want to be in a relationship,then you need to except the things that you like and don't like about them.
2006-10-15 16:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his not a phone person
2006-10-15 15:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by JZ103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if there was no such thing as a telephone? Do that.
2006-10-15 15:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋