Had sex but I kinnda went a little too hard on her and she told me to get off of her and that I was hurting her but it felt sooo good that I didnt stop now she doesnt want to spk to me wat do i do????
2006-10-15 08:45:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you serioius...leave her alone
2006-10-15 08:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize and grovel.
Sex means very different things to men and women. Most men see it as a part of a relationship, but for females they often look for it as an expression of love in a relationship. The fact that you didn't listen to her when she was in pain and went on doing what YOU, is a sign to her that you don't really care about her feelings or her body. Sex isn't about one person reaching their end, its about both of you expressing yourself through something powerful and bonding.
You need to look at yourself and say why was my orgasm more important than the comfort of my girlfriend. Cause that is what she's thinking too. You don't think that she wouldv'e helped you reach your orgasm another way? I know in that situation I would want my guy to be satisfied, but I wouldn't want to be in pain the next day.
Oh and just to let you know. If your partner during ANY part of the act tells you to stop. That counts as RAPE.
This is just some stuff to think about. I hope I helped you out.
2006-10-15 15:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you have to take it easy on her with sex.Especially if she is a virgin! All the things you see in porn are fake, you have to start slow, be gentle, listen to what is saying(or moaning), and I guarantee you will both have a great time.
You messed up big time, but if you go and talk to her about it, explain you are sorry, you might have a chance.
when you have sex again, be a good boyfriend and be gentle!
2006-10-15 15:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by jrah86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should apologize to her and explain that you wanted to stop by could not. NEXT TIME when she says STOP or NO it means THAT. If you dont listen it could get you into trouble. Talk to her, be honest and tell her you are still learning just like her.
2006-10-15 15:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unfortunately what u did is rape so she might want to take action against u so u should have stopped whether it felt good to u or not bcuz it didnt feel good to her. u should definetly apologize to her.
2006-10-15 15:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by scorpion_gurl88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg are you serious? Hunni that is called RAPE you should get counseling and so should your girlfriend. If she tells the police then you will be charged and you will see what it feels like when its your turn to drop the soap.
2006-10-15 15:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should grow up and learn that everything isn't only about you and what you like. Don't you think you're self-centered, non empathic and somewhat pathetic? Get help.
2006-10-15 15:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few days to talk to her and explain you were caught in the moment of lust, maybe that will work if not then maybe you will have to move on...
2006-10-15 15:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
Sincerly apologize to her, leave her alone and accept it that your relationship with her is now or soon will be over.
Congratulations, you've suceeded to being a selfish pig!
2006-10-15 17:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off of her next time! appearently you dont care about her that much cuz you would rather cause her pain for your own enjoyment then to stop hurting her
2006-10-15 15:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by doto7640 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude jus hope she doesnt call rap on u!! b/c she did tell u to stop!! so yea u may jus need to find some one that likes it ruff!!
2006-10-15 15:49:11 · answer #11 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋