i was talking with my cousin the other day... about girls and relationships... then the it came up where i said that some to many girls are dumb blinded or watever to be in a one way relationship.. we were talking about how some girls stay with a guy even tho he: is a player; doesnt respect them; doesn't listen to them or be with them; and hurts them emotoinally....AND HOW THEY KEEP STAYING WITH HIM.... i go by sometimes and see these types of girls at city bus stops on their phone.. you can tell that they are talking to their bf..... WHY ISN'T HE PICKING YOU UP!!!... if he were at work, he couldn't be on the phone... on break?? maybe but then he should make the attempt to get her a ride....if it were me id make the attempt to find her a ride.. not leave her to catch the city bus at 9 or 930 pm... even at 5 or 6pm... i dont know if its just me or wat but id like SERIOUS answers only...
why does this happen?? and Are you one one of these girls
2006-10-15 08:44:35 · 4 answers · asked by Jorge R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive read some of these answers... antoher question... do you kno of someone in this situation???
2006-10-15 09:25:36 · update #1
This happens sometimes because girls seek the best out of the relationship and try to ignore all the bad because they, sometimes, thought the guy was soo sweet and nice but then they get into a relationship with them and see what kind of person they really are, and don't want to believe it because they REALLY liked him before they got into a relationship. Other times the girl just doesn't want to be alone or they just don't know how to get out of the relationship. I've did something like that one time...well kind of...so i guess I kind of am like one of those girls and kind of not. (Posted by ApulsC1314's friend Amber)
2006-10-15 09:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by aplusc1314 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women, like some women, are drawn to people that don't treat them so well for what ever reason. . .maybe they had abusive parents and don't know what real love is like so they follow these cyclical bad relationships. No one wants to be in a relationship where the other person isn't giving them the love and respect they deserve. Instead of putting them down, think about what makes them do this instead. Plus, a girl waiting at a bus stop isn't a bad thing. This is not 1856. We do have independence and equality now, we don't need a man to do everything for us!
2006-10-15 15:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way in h e double hockey sticks am I one of those girls. I will stand for zero disrespect!!! I have a no tolerance policy on cheating!!! Unfortunately, some girls do put up with that crap. The reasons vary from thinking they can't do better, or all guys treat women this way to just some blind obsession. Whatever the reason, it is never good enough. Most girls catch on to the fact that they CAN do much better. It usually comes with age and maturity though. After all, you can't expect a little girl to make grown up decisions. As far as the ride thing, I have my own vehicle and depend on no one for a ride or help. I do it all myself. That way, I am never stuck in some odd position. I also have a back up plan for the instances that my vehicle might break down, it's called cab money.
2006-10-15 15:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you dont do that because now i know that there is at least one person who doesnt abuse there girlfriends emotionally. No i am not one of those girls. but most of the time it happens because the boy looses intrests in the girl, wnats to move along with his life, but somehow still loves that gurl. or sometimes they dont want to break up with the girl so instead they treat them wrong just so they could break up with the dude. Theres the answer to your question.
2006-10-15 15:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rockii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋