I'm will specify. For the intent of getting someone else to pay for you because you know guys will buy you dirnks to try and pick you up or they want your company.
I don't mean those who go out with friends because it's their turn to pay.
2006-10-15 08:34:48 · 21 answers · asked by elliott 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Peaches: Thanks for pointing out my grammer and spelling mistake. I didn't realize I did that. Spell check missed it too. It's late and I should retire for the night to prevent from offending peole like you. Or maybe you could tolerate a few mistakes.
However, I didn't fall for that ruse. I had a "girl" explain to me why she went out on the town with only 5 dollars. I tried to tell her it was not *wise.
Perhaps your mastery of english makes up for your poor assumptions. I never fell for that trick. And my mother taught me well about mad money.
I respect *Women. But not hateful and presumptious people such as yourself who harbor hate for people who make mistakes. Stay in your rocking chair if you are going to demean people instead of offering constructive critizism.
2006-10-15 09:49:23 · update #1
I Think Its Stupid , Bring Money And If The Guy Offers To payfor It The Great , If Not The We Should Pay Up
2006-10-15 08:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Fight Song 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Any GIRL and I say girl - because a WOMAN - would never do that - any woman keeps what is called "mad money" - that way, no matter what happens during the evening or whatever - the WOMAN has the means to get home! PS: Next time check your spelling and especially your ENGLISH - (Women!) (I'm/ I will),not a new sentence. If your spoken language is as bad as your written - you deserve to pay for everything - your lucky if a "girl" accepts a date from you. Wise up - obviously your mother didn't do a very good job on you.
2006-10-15 16:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You ask this question in these days of women fighting for equality? There should be no doubt about who pays for what. You order a drink, you pay for it. No money? Don't order.
Have some self respect. 'Expecting' your b/f to pay for your drink is like a dog on its hindlegs begging for a bone. It suits a dog. Not women. Nope, no way will I expect a man to pay. If he offers to pay even though I am perfectly capable - I will let him but I quickly find an opportunity to return that favor with my own money.
That's how things should be.
Equal.
2006-10-15 15:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I never order anything unless I can pay for it myself, if someone offers to pay that's OK, they can.
Out on a date, I try to have smaller bills so when he's figuring out how much to tip and getting it ready, I can say " well I have this, just let me leave it ". They don't usually take it, but as least I make an offer.
2006-10-15 18:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always bring money with me. I am a firm believer in most of feminism and equality so I don't usually allow a guy to pay for me in the first place. The whole guy buying women drinks for their company objectifies them-something I am very much against, and men know usually as soon as they talk to me.
2006-10-15 18:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by dancingbelle_90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To go without money? Never. I always have some cash with me whether it's for emergency gas, taxi, or to pay for my food, drinks.
To expect a guy to pay for a $2.00 drink and the guy wants sex after that??? what a sick dog. I would NEVER EVER expect a guy to pay for anything. Men want sex and everything for a few $$$. It's sad but true.
2006-10-15 19:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A smart woman will always bring cash in case it's needed but this doesn't mean she has to let anyone know she has it. Some women (not myself cause i'm not single) probably lie just to get the man to pay though.
2006-10-15 15:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by ColeBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do that. One reason - that makes me feel cheap, like in cheap prostitute. If I'm treated to a drink or a dessert, I appreciate it and I totally love it. Means he likes my company. But if I were to go without money and expect the guy to pay for it he has all reason to expect to be paid back. I allow guys to pay for me and appreciate it as a little gift to me, but I don't expect it.
2006-10-15 18:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bring about $20 with me because I keep myself on a budget and I know that some guy ususally ends up buying me a few drinks
2006-10-15 16:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never go out with a man expecting him to pay for me,if he does then thats fine but I will always offer to treat him the next time.
2006-10-15 15:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋