Is there any way to be attractive and have the guy like you for who you are, not just your body?
2006-10-15 07:50:15 · 16 answers · asked by ~Julia~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all u need to do is to be urself. act naturally and dont pretend to be someone that you are not. most of the guys knoe and they can sense if the girl is not at ease and insecure with themselves.they avoid being with those type of gurls.
i hate to admit it but most guys will like you if u have a great body. But its up to you on how u will carry urself infront of them. Like you should make them realize that theres more to offer aside from having a nice body....
2006-10-15 07:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by pink_sling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if a man is rich? How can he use his money to attract a woman who isn't just after his money? It's essentially the same problem.
Pay attention to the kinds of compliments he gives you. Is it always about your appearance, or does he notice anything else?
Watch how he treats other women, including those who are less attractive than you are.
Notice why he approached you in the first place. If a man hardly notices you, until he overhears you saying something, he might be attracted to your wit, or your sense of humor.
2006-10-15 08:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no. If everyone was blind then we would all be friends. Would you start a close friendship with a person you thought was ugly? Most of us wouldn't and this world is all about sex and good looking people. Just look at the people in People mag. or Hollywood. We all want hair plants, boob jobs, tummy tucks, and sexy bodies.
2006-10-15 07:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by charles j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work off his intrests. Any guy in the world would pick the girl he can talk football and play games with rather than a beanpole ditz who can't talk without that squeeky 4 year old thing going on.
2006-10-15 07:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by deltasigjrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy likes you only for your body, drop him..there is more to women theb her body..but in this world, we have made such a big fuss over the body that most men go for the body and not the mind..men don't think with their minds..lol..so at first that is what attracts them to you..i think that by not having a sexual experiance with them for awhile, will let you know if they like you for who you are and not just your body..blessings
2006-10-15 07:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is something you can control - the only thing u need to focus on is getting away from guys that are only attracted to you for your appearance and don't want to speand time getting to know the real you
2006-10-15 07:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by misscynic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first met my boyfriend, he was physically attracted to me. Yet, before we started dating, we got to know one another, and he loved (and still does) my personality. I wasn't what he expected and he loves it. So yes it is possible, although it is extremely hard because you will find a lot more wrong guys then you will find right.
2006-10-15 07:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your inner self shine through! Let him know that you're an intelligent, warm, caring person with a great sense of humor and that you are comfortable with yourself. Most people that aren't comfortable with themselves aren't comfortable to be around. Dress appropriately, not slutty, or too conservative either, just comfortable.Be yourself.
2006-10-15 07:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you.lol. But don't do anything like wear open-clothes and stuff. 'cause that's just no use. And oh, depends on the guy you like: if he likes the open-kind, just do whatever; but if he likes ordianry, be yourself.
2006-10-15 07:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mystical.Waters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know some super hot girls that i like not beacause theyre hot but because theyre staight up super cool, intelligent witty and sexy all in one package is freakin awesome
2006-10-15 07:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dre 5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋