I want to get along,but If she can't have things her way she takes it out on my children. I am not having it. My husband is saddened of the fact that we do not get along. But he has already addressed her. She denies any wrong doing. What do I do????
2006-10-15 07:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by purpleone726 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you've tried to make peace, and she wont budge, then that's all you can do. I would just leave her alone and accept that you two have your differences.
2006-10-15 07:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be greatfull that is only that and that your husband has concerns about it .My 3 sisters in law never like me because I will not follow their sluty ways and i have strong moral values. They never look out for my children ,20 years later they got together a focus on brainwashing my husband against not only me but the kids as well and they pay all the expenses to have this friend of theirs to move to southbridge from Brooklyn to get her involve with my ex.Invitations,parties follow,always using family as an excuse for him to show without usand yes,she was there for all those ocations .My ex felt for it little by little to the point of him getting to hate me and the kids .One day he went to work and never came back ,he even did'nt say good buy. And during the 2nd month of divorce procedings the other woman was pregnant .A woman who sleept with half of brooklyn and never for 20 years had a serious relationship distroy my marriage with the help of the in laws.So my advise to you is to be aware of all your sorroundings concerning your husband .I hope it get better for you. good luck
2006-10-15 15:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by free@last 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough when family members don't get along. However, your loyalty is to your children and husband and his loyalty is to you and his children. It is sad but there are situations where it's best to separate yourself from anyone who tries to cause problems in your core family. I would hope you won't be ugly to her but putting distance between you may be necessary. You are never wrong to do the best thing for your mate and your children.
2006-10-15 14:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing by leaving her alone. If your husband has already talked to her then there is nothing else you can do. She sounds kinda crazy, so good luck!
2006-10-15 14:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong if you want to get along in she do not just stay away from here the best way you know how.You both have to want just not one
2006-10-15 14:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by softloveboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation.
Make sure your husband knows you are with him 100%, but make sure he is 100% clear that its about you and him first....
You can't stop going to see her, but try to limit your interaction with her, and be as polite as possible, and try not to let her get under your skin.
You can't change her, but you can change your reaction, some people are poison, dont let them infect you.
2006-10-15 14:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can do it stay away from her she sounds selfish to me. Your husband has done the right thing but his sister has not grown up at all.
2006-10-15 14:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by fonda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right !! you tried now ...but you know something ??you can catch more flies with sugar than with vinegar ...be sweet all the time to her kill her with kindness that way no one can find fault with you and maybe people will say something in your favor and see how she is towards you .....good for your husband sticking up for you that's how it should be !!
2006-10-15 14:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel you completely... just keep ignoring her. it won't resolve the situation but it will keep you from killing her persay. my sister n law and i haven't spoken in almost a year.
2006-10-15 15:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋