my girlfrind jus told me that she started speaking with another guy a couple of months ago. she says all they did was speak on the phone but never went for a date. she told me that she was physically attracted to him, but nothing happended. Is it normal for girl who is in a relationship to speak with a another guy that she is attracted to constantly? Dunno if she cheating? anyone evr been a situation like this?
2006-10-15 07:39:42 · 30 answers · asked by tone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you absolutely have proof she is cheating give it a rest. You will kill what you do have with this girl, due to the jealousy on your part. A little jealousy can destroy a relationship. And I do not know the situation between the two of you...but sometimes women ( although it's crazy) can do little things to drive you crazy , they do this for attention or more affection from you. So...step up... maybe it's not what you are doing but what you are not doing.
2006-10-15 07:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by blujeanbaby56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal. She is maybe not cheating on you physically, but she is thinking about the other guy. Dump her before you get hurt and hurt her. No matter what people say, friendship between a man and a women may work for some time, but at one point or the other, when one or the other is at its weakest (during an argument with a bf or gf, for example, or when one is having a difficult time) something is bound to happen, it's a normal law of attraction.
2006-10-15 14:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she is cheating on you.It's a good thing that she told you instead of you finding out by someone else.But that's not the point.The fact of the matter is, that she is talking to someone she is attractive to constantly.That is not a bright light.I think you should talk to her.Even though she may not tell the whole truth.I say you put a end to this right now.
2006-10-15 14:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by TayTay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case he was cheating. She either is cheating or is thinking about it. If she truly likes you she will cut that relationship to a minimum.
Now the question to you is how much do you trust her? Can you deal with this? Are you just being paranoid and jealous? She told you first and was truthful. Maybe you need to trust her. This is an opportunity for the relationship to grow.
Ask her if he is attracted to her. Or talk to him.
But just to tell you my case was different and he did cheat with the girl he was 'just talking to'.
2006-10-15 14:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by lorrieface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta appreciate that honesty, but DAMN, that's hard on you! How is she going to tell you she's attracted to another man and then continue to speak with him even though its reasonable to expect it would bother and worry you??!!! Sorry, but while she is certainly to be commended for not lying, she is QUITE insensitive. I hate to say it but she probably would cheat with this guy........if she's attracted AND they are developing an emotionaly closeness (i.e. speaking on the phone etc alot) then that is just BOUND to occur. The point is, even if she isn't cheating now, why bother with this woman? I send my empathy for your situation and wish you the best.
2006-10-15 14:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by D W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is very handsome and never had a problem with me talking with other guys like on the street saying hi or hows the family. But one day I was at work and this fine ,sexy,gorgeous man with a nice body came into where I work and we always talked, but I never took it any farther. One day my husband came in and saw me talking to him (by the way it's my job to talk to customers) and he snatched me into the corner and was yelling at me for not reason. Then I realized this guy made him feel really insecure, cause that man was fine, he was not right for dragging me away, but I understand his feelings and was more careful not to hurt them again. She shouldn't be on the phone with this dude if it makes you feel uncomfortable and if she finds him attractive she may not have slept with him, but it sure seems like that's what it is leading up to if you don't put your foot down.
2006-10-15 14:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dumb. She's screwing around on you. You have three options frm here. 1. Leave her and be angry and bitter and die alone. 2. Ask her bring them along and have some good group sex. 3. Find some girls and cheat on her. If your intrestind in #3, give me a call big boy. Revenge sex can be fun, filled with all tha t anger and passion, makes for an exciting night. Trust me.
2006-10-15 14:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that she told you she was attracted to him, is enough. And she is talking to him all the time on the phone.
That is not good, she is in a way cheating. She is going to
have to decide whether she wants you or him. Than you will
have to decide weather you can trust and forgive her.
Good luck !
2006-10-15 14:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then if she physically attracted to this guy then they went to a date..date to me is wen u met in person or just coffee or whatever that is a date...and how did she know that she is attracted to him if they just talking in the phone...
yes,its normal for a girl to talked to guy while she is in relationship but there is a limitation...i think she wants to dump u..
2006-10-15 14:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with talking, however sounds like its a possibility she may. However it is not unusual for people to be just attracted to each other, but that is definitely how it starts.
Curiosity always kills the cat.
2006-10-15 14:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by CeKaye L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋