No guy has ever really liked me.... after i had came to that conclusion i decided that i would not care what people said to me, and i would walk thru life with a smile on my face..... but that didnt work all i could do was find fault in everything that i did and became really depressed all over again.... one day someone really close to me said... "You are not true to yourself".. and i thought about it... and decided that he was right.... but how do i become more true to myself??
2006-10-15 07:30:45 · 7 answers · asked by limey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being true to yourself, is all about being honest with yourself, which means learning to know what you are all about..like what really makes you happy, sometimes we say we don't like someone because others don't like them..that isn't being true to yourself..or we believe that we are unworthy of any kind of love, and we start to hate ourselves, cause if no one else likes us or loves us, then there just has to be something wrong with us..that is a lie, that is the old ego trip thing..you are worthy of whatever you want..get to know yourself,,read books that can help your self-esteem..there are lots of books out there that can help..spirituality, mediation, yoga are good for the soul..blessings
2006-10-15 07:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's where your needs are being met according to your expectations. (i.e., change your attitude about walking through life with a smile on your face) You are probably pretty miserable acting happy all the time. There is probably a lot of pent up anger inside you. Release it. I suggest going for all inclusive massage and body treatment and from that day forward make an effort to find your prince charming.
2006-10-15 14:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just believe in your self and do the best as you feel it .Above all trust god and that is all. Always remember may be others are wrong and you are right. it is also possible that you are straight forward and it is others hypocracy that didnt alow u to come closer to any one.Finally there are billions of people on the earth and you have tried very few so you cant say the world is over so keep trying till u find your sweet hony good luck.
2006-10-15 14:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being what you want to be. finding what make you happy, not what makes others happy. Take time to understand yourself.
2006-10-15 14:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not an easy journey to do on your own.....
Counseling?
2006-10-15 14:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Eve C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are!
2006-10-15 14:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by pink9364 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already have...it just takes time and patience, u are getting there just dont give up!
2006-10-15 14:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋