okay im on th emeseenger thing with this guy from the carribean and i really like him and he really likes me he is really nice and he tells me he doesn't care about distance that he will alwasy like me he compliments me and he likes all the same things i do, he said he would fly me down there to see him he also writes me poems and tells me that im beautiful ect...i really really like him and he tells me we need to put our future in front of us, someone tell me what they think be serious
2006-10-15 07:08:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for some reason, you have alot of question i can answer. I met my boyfriend online. And I just moved in to an apartment with him. I'm 18 and he is 19...i must admit...things arnt good all the time...and i miss my family and my life before. But...I love him more then anything in this whole world. And i'd do anything i could to make him happy. But he and I both waited over a year to see each other. ( my parents wouldnt let me leave until i was an adult ) Honestly...see if he is willing to wait a while...dont rush into things...it made seeing him all more worth it. But you also need to know that talking to him online and talking to him on the phone..you still dont know the person. And if you go there...at the age of 16 its not like you can shelther yourslef...you'll be totally depend on him..and that WILL be rough. Going from never seeing him to always seeing him...and when you have problems its not like you can just go home...you're with him. Good luck....but think about what you are getting yourslef into. Theres alot of strange people out there....dont go until you are 10000 percent sure that he is who you think he is..And one last thing...i know this is long but....remember nothing is to good to be true...if he is always saying sweet things and doing "nice" things for you. He is either after sex or not you think he is...being in a realtionship..Is going to be work...nothing comes perfect.
2006-10-15 17:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by ev3rlazt3nluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fun to play online but don't take this any further. No phone numbers, no plane tickets, nothing.
There's a 98% chance he is some 300 lb bald guy from Detroit and a better chance that he could do you harm. Stay online and enjoy the game but keep it right where it is.
2006-10-15 07:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to know this guy more because people can pretend to be something they are not. Try and find out if he can fly in to see you rather than fly you to see him for safety reasons. when you meet this guy then you can be able to tell for real if he feels the same way as you. i wish you the best
2006-10-15 07:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Obria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the nly thing about meeting ppl via internet is you don't really know what they're capable of. just be careful and make sure you have enough valid info on him just incase he does something and things don't go as planned. but if you feel like you really want to be with this guy then you d=should follow your heart if you have doubts then you should wait or see if a friend can accompany you. maybe get him to come to you.
2006-10-15 07:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by gardener24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-15 07:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if the guy really has wonder vision device to tell you, you look beautyful? Well let me put in this way...once I was stranded in a house with a girl I consider was not beautiful. With everyday that pass, she win over my heart with her beutiful mind...........i hope you guess what i am trying to say. That guy may be sounding good but is he? well you never know. anyway give it a try!!!!!
2006-10-15 07:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jaggs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really like him, don't you? I say let him visit, but book himself into a hotel or something. And then meet him in a safe place, where someone would either accompany you or just keep an eye on you.
2006-10-15 07:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon for people to have things in common no matter where you live, but you need to take this relationship for what it is an online thing and leave it at that. You need to get out more and meet people.
2006-10-15 07:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by barbie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay,I know a girl who had the same situation as you, she flew her 'online boyfriend' home to canada for her prom, they went together and now, 5 months later, she is pregnant and engaged to him. she is 18 years old...
i think you should think REALLY hard before making this decision, personally i dont think you should do it, but if you are thinking about it, make sure you think of all of the possibilites, and definitely dont go alone
2006-10-15 07:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For all i've got heard approximately devil being liable for all of the "undesirable" issues, there is not any longer lots interior the Bible approximately what he has performed. nonetheless, it quite is a comforting thought that an all-understanding, all-useful, benevolent god is administration of each little thing. Er... each little thing no longer "undesirable", it quite is. yet such issues because of fact the conflict against the Midianites and the plagues of Egypt have been suffering led to the two directly via God, or via His command. i think of that is drastically greater healthy to have self assurance interior the NT god of love and forgiveness, however, extremely than a god of vengeance and jealousy.
2016-10-19 10:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋