So, I'm dating a guy but he doesn't like to talk on the instant messaging a whole lot. He says that he loves the way I make him laugh and smile. I asked him what he liked about me and he said looks, personality, and humor. Now, he doesn't really acknowledge me as much anymore, but he still likes sitting next to me in my classes. What is wrong with him and what should i do?
2006-10-15 07:05:38 · 14 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text messaging is not personal communication. Maybe you should try conversation or doing things together. There is no substitute for person-to-person interaction. Give the text a break.
2006-10-15 07:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be a lot of things. I would say you don't know enough. Sit down and have lunch with him, just the two of you and talk. Keep it casual and try not to force anything. Even though you are wanting more serious answers, keep things light and enjoyable. Let your body language say you like him, but stay just out of reach to see if he moves closer.
Also always keep in mind that there are other guys out there and if this one doesn't pan out, its really not a huge deal.
2006-10-15 14:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see just give him a lil bit of time to his self and see what happens then just hang out with your friends in the mean time and invite him to go along with you...its normal for a guy to do this because i am married i got married when i was 16 and ever since then he does not pay that much attention complement me or anything...i was hoping it would pass but it all depends on the guy and how he is...hope this helps...
2006-10-15 14:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dosent like to talk on im..why dont you talk on the phone? and if he dosent acknolwedge* you excpet when hes around his friends...it could be that he is just trying to "show you off" i really dont know how to respond to this b/c i dont know the full suitation but just follow your heart..Good Luck
2006-10-15 14:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Summer S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can relate,my bf doesnt talk to me hardly ever but we text alot. maybe he has lost interest, or needs some space for a while
2006-10-15 14:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Brutalyhonest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit by someone else until you guys grow up.
2006-10-15 14:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he likes you as a friend
either he has someone else
or he has some noble idea about
waiting until you both graduate.
2006-10-15 14:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be alot of reasons but i would say that you need to leave it up to him put the ball in his court
2006-10-15 14:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is ask him more questions and then he will start geeting more confident about you and ask you more or quit with him if you dont like his humer
2006-10-15 14:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell u its some kind of weak admiration not love
2006-10-15 14:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by moony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋