There's this guy that l like and l think he also feels the same way but none of us can make the first move. We are both in yr 11 but we go to different schools. l've met him on several occasions but we've never spoken to each other, we only stare at each other. One day l met him at the bus stop when he was getting off da bus & l was getting on da bus. So he was with his friends & he whispered something to them, they all looked @ me & then 1 of them started hustling him sayin' go to her man, why don't you go tell her? l could tell he was really shy wen his friends did that and l didn't know what to do so, l just got in the bus coz it was abt to leave. After that l didn't c him 4 abt 3wks & l forgot all about him until last wk Wed wen l saw him in his dad's cars checking me out thru da window wen l was walking with ma friends from sxool. From then on l started thinking about him & lm wondering if he really likes me or he's just interested in looking at me.Help pliz!!!
2006-10-15 06:51:32 · 27 answers · asked by chicho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When l saw him on Wed l had changed the direction in which l go home everyday. l really don't know what made me use that way & if l had not changed l wouldn't have seen him & l wouldn't be stressed.(by da way l concentrate on my school work a lot and l always put my education infront of everything else). l think da other problem is l go to a girls school and so l guess my confidence among the opposite sex is going down coz l really find it hard to start a conversation with a boy especially if l'm alone. Thanx for ur help and support!!!
2006-10-15 06:58:48 · update #1
Next time you see him,just smile & say hello,if he's interested he will respond.
2006-10-15 06:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you, but like a lot of guys that age, he's afraid of rejection and isn't sure enough about himself to take the chance. You can help things along by giving him some sort of signal that you're interested too. A smile or a wave...anything to assure him you're not going to laugh in his face or make him feel stupid for approaching you. If that doesn't work, approach him and start a conversation. It okay for a girl to make the first move. Especially since it's VERY obvious he's looking and interested in you. And if he says he's not interested, smile and move on,. What do you have to lose? An old saying: NOTHING VENTURED...NOTHING GAINED. If you don't try, you may never know if you wait for him to make the first move. Good luck...hope you get what you want, and if not...you'll find someone eventually.
2006-10-15 14:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both like each other but your shyness is getting in the way. The next time you see him just say "Hi, how ya doin?" or somethin like that. You don't have to tell him you're in love with him or anything serious like that, but jeez someone's gotta make the first move. Maybe this will work for you. Sometimes it just takes a lil something to get a conversation started. :)
2006-10-15 14:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he is looking at you, then he likes you, seriously. Just go up to him and say hello and then walk away. Its not that hard to do. Then youve got him. By you saying hello, he will think you like him. He will also feel obligated to make the next move, which he will, but you might have to wait a bit, some guys need time to build up courage.
2006-10-15 14:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does really like you if his friends were doing that. Honestly, that happened to me to and I told him how i felt and he did feel the same way about me. Now we've been dating for a week yesterday. He loves me soo much that i never knew. I was with someone else when I started noticing, I've never kissed anybody but he kissed me on Thursday! YAY!!! Well anyways, give it a little bit of time and maybe he'll start noticing you more. Just ask for his number and talk to him.
2006-10-15 13:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a junior in high school...PLEASE use the english skills you've been taught and write/spell properly...iu's good practice and makes it SO MUCH easier to read...
As for your question, if he's so painfully shy and you really want to know what's up, then no reason you cannot approach him...next time you see him go up to him and start a conversation...
You won't know 'til you try...what have you got to lose?
2006-10-15 13:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds great i definitely think that the next time you guys see each other and he is staring that you should go over and introduce yourself to him and get to know him and then tell him how you feel
2006-10-15 13:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eyes can tell you everything. Follow your instincts to find out. Looks like he is interested to be your friend and is missing to have conversation with him. Don't wait make the first move.
2006-10-15 13:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This situation sux, so i get why you confused. personally i agree with the other comment, guys go after what they want. they really are that simple!!! just chill and wait for him to do the work. but if its really getting to you, next time you see him, go up and just say "hi, i see you around. im (your name)" but be prepared.. his response might not be as romantic as you imagine. shy guys are hard to figure out
2006-10-15 13:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave it up to him, don't worry yourself about it! If he likes you he will pluck up the courage to ask you out, if you really don't want to leave it down to him then just start talking to him. Once you've spoken to him you should be able to tell if he likes you or not!
2006-10-15 14:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young love its enough to bring the bile to the back of my throat JUST start talking even if its only hello that's all it takes to break the ice also please try and keep your mind on the school work you will need that even if this does not go anywhere
2006-10-15 16:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by SH1T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋