Help, my boyfriend ex girlfriend still likes him what should i do he told me that he doesnt care about her any more that im the only one he loves but that girl likes him she will probably try to get him back but im not gonna let her. what should i do. i believe him but i dont trust that chick. and he has her for a class she needs to get over him cuz his mine but im scared to lose him what should i do or what would happen im confuse plz help.
2006-10-15 06:47:55 · 18 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well do what I did. I went into her face and said you better stay away cuz he doesn't care about u anymore. Whatever happens, happens
2006-10-15 06:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Slow down and take a deep breath. It's not the chick you need to worry about, it's yourself, you are spending so much time and energy worrying about what might happen that i bet you spend very little time on your relationship with your bf.Chances are you will run your bf away with all your insecurities and accusations. Only your bf can allow this other girl to come between you and him. So stop freaking out about the ex and start building a stronger relationship with your man.
2006-10-15 07:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust him. If he said that he loves you and wants nothing to do with his ex then believe him. Even though you dont trust her, trust him enough for the both of them. He might get mad if you bug him about it too much so just dont bug him about it. You wouldnt want him to get mad. If you still feel scared about it then tell her to back off. I bet she will get the picture if you shove it in her face but be careful and nice about it. Try to explain to her how you feel. If that doesnt work, email me and ill help you any way that i can.
2006-10-15 07:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my boyfriend and I were dating we had no problems. As soon as we got married both of his kids mom were trying to get him back. Women like that are mad because the guy moved on and they feel like the guy can't find anyone like them or better then them. It is her problem don't worry about him or her. If he choses to go back to her leave it alone, but for now believe him and enjoy the time you have with him don't let this effect your relationship, because it is what she want to happen so she can say you are no good for him and try to move in on him. If she gets out of line with you put her in her place and go on and have a blast with YOUR boyfriend and pay her no attention.
2006-10-15 06:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You use your female instincts!! Although he is telling you that you are the only one Still watch him, he is STILL a Guy plus they did have a history together. However, b/c they have a history together doesn't mean that it was a "good" history. Hey, you are the girl around his arm and she envies that b/c she once knew what that was like. Time will always tell all things. Just keep doing what you are doing, and being who you are b/c that is who he fell in love with!!!
Goodluck and don't worry TOO much about it
2006-10-15 06:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that could be a very confusing state for you. But you'll have to accept whatever decesion your boy friend will come up with. And also you might need to take some more actions, but I don't think that should be discussed publicly, you'll find my contact addresses in the link below.
2006-10-15 06:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust Him. If you trust your boyfriend, this girl shouldn't bother you at all. She can try as much as she wants to, but he is with you. That's all that should matter. If you try to force her to acknowledge your presence and to stay away from him, you may cause the rift between the two of you. Trust is the foundation of all good relationships.
2006-10-15 06:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really wanted her back he wud get with her wouldnt he? but no he has a new gf now thats y ther called EX'S!! my fellas ex has tried to rip me n him apart from day 1 n this was in jan 06 up until now, but look who hes still with ME.! she tried 2 say she was pregnant and that he was sleeping with her behind my back but the dates and days she sed he was doin this he was with me! just go with the flow hes with u now, if things change and he happens to act suspicious and he starts seeing her again then ur betta than that so u can find sum1 2! its all about trust hun x Good Luck
2006-10-15 06:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by vicky_js23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to change that class. Or you should get in that class, that way you'll be able to be with your boyfriend and try to make the girl back off.
2006-10-15 06:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone, if you trust your boyfriend who cares if she still likes him, Right? Good Luck
2006-10-15 06:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋