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I keep hearing about these single men out there but the ones I find are either not interested in me or they think a second date means going to their place to snuggle. I don't give off any indication that I am that type of person and am upfront in my personals ad of what I am looking for but it seems all these guys are looking for fast sex. Every guy that I have gotten asked for a second date wanted to come and pick me up and take me back to their house to snuggle on the couch. I find that a little fast on a second date. What ever happened to men who believe in taking a woman out and doing stuff together and getting to know each other a little first? It seems all the singlel men I meet want to stay single

2006-10-15 06:47:00 · 13 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

We're all waiting for the women who like being treated like a lady and want to be in a serious relationship. We're the ones who are tired of being rejected because we're not the bad boy type who treat women like crap. We're out here. We just get overlooked because we're different then what you obviously are attracted to. We may not be 'hot' or tall dark and handsome. We may be even a little less than average in the looks department. We may not be rich and drive fast cars...but were here. You can find us in a grocery store, church, or some similar place, not 'hangin wit da homeboys' or in a bar. Sometimes you have to jump ahead to a little older guy who is more mature and respectful, and not just out to see how fast he can get you into bed. We are here...you just need to look a little harder, and accept us for what's inside, not what we look like or have.

2006-10-15 07:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 2 0

Many men are like flies on the window... those that are in, want out, and those that are out, want in.

At least the men you meet are single, as opposed to married, looking for extra-friends with benefits! And of course, money is always an issue, as most men expect outings to be "dutch". Could this be part of the issue?

Apparently, the "law of attraction" claims that how you think and behave attracts others who are like-minded. Examine your intentions, needs, desires, and know yourself and what it is that you seek in a relationship. Why not thank those with offers of snuggling, and simply say you'd rather go out. State your needs, and leave no room for guesswork. See what happens.... "Worst case scenario" is that you go out alone or with your female friends, and have lost nothing! These men who are only interested in a physical companion are not meeting your needs for a relationship, and you have no obligation to spend your valuable time wondering why... simply move one.

2006-10-15 06:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Yeah, some places are like that. Guys tend to not read the ads completely, especially if you have a picture. Look elsewhere, or have a stock respons you send out first: "Did you read my add completely? Do you understand ..."

2006-10-15 06:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jeni P 3 · 0 0

where are all the women that are like you? My sex is very important to me. but I'd rather take it slow too. actually more exciting to hold off for what I really want. I want us to yearn for each other. If she sleeps with me so easily. she is the cheating kind. I do not want to start a relationship with her if in a short while she is out looking for another man.

2006-10-15 06:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

There are a lot of guys out there that want to stay single. There are few that want a relationship. When you least expect it... that's when someone will come into your life.

2006-10-15 06:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Marla C 2 · 1 0

because of the fact they are little egocentric, low self esteemed abode wrecking s l u t s and that they see it as a project, something they are able to't have and can't get yet opt for and could see how some distance the guy will bypass. they opt for what we've, happiness, love and dedication.

2016-11-23 13:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by virgen 4 · 0 0

That is how they do it....LIE, all they want is the sex , with as many as they can. Their are some out there that does want
a serious relationship. You just have to weed threw them. Its
men like that , that scare us off.

2006-10-15 06:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0 0

Good men looking for a good commitment do not look at adds.

2006-10-15 07:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0 0

if you don't put out on a second date what do you expect a guy to do.

2006-10-15 06:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

They are where you aren't looking

2006-10-15 06:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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