All my life my sister has been held up higher than me by my parents, she is older ,she was a popular cheerleader in highschool and I was not. No matter what I do- I could win the noble peace prize and she could get a new job at Taco Bell and they still would look at her accomlishment better than mine. I am now married and my husband is a good sweet man that is so outgoing with my family and my sisters fiance never even talks to them but hey still like him more, I know they love me but I just feel like a second class citizen in that house, can anyone help?
2006-10-15 06:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your not alone all my life I have been treated like crap in my own family and continue to do so for me I just surround myself from the love of my friends and some close family members so hang in there and just love yourself for who you are and know that its not your fault some families shouldn't have had kids LOL HUGS
2006-10-15 06:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alot of parents tend to pay more attention to the challenged child and they just know the other is OK without expressing it. I wouldn't visit as much and they might come around to treating you like an equal or at least come over and say we haven't seen you in a while and ask why, then there is the open door to say what you want to say to them. Good luck.
2006-10-15 13:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are thinking about it too much. Don't let it bother you even if your family does like your sisters fiance better. I have the feeling that you have some old grudges toward your sister and your family for seemingly being more impressed with her. I hope everything works out, I suggest you talk to your sister and your family...
2006-10-15 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i to once was in the same situation,trying to impress my mom, but no matter what i've done, just didn't seem to matter much, stop trying to make yourself be heared or recognized, because your only going to hurt yourself, if your happy with where you at ,who you are and who you with, thats what matters,learn to appriciate those who do appreciate who you are and what to do, sometimes those who we want to applaud us never at times come threw for what ever reasons, so stop trying to figure out why, because if you haven't found out why yet, honey you never will, let it go, your only going to hurt yourself, just be glad and happy for YOU.
2006-10-15 13:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by smokin_mini 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they love you,but they adore her!!!you can't change how sby feels so no use feeling sad about it!!forget about your parents and just give all your attention to your husband!!!don't call your parents or visit them very often to see if they even miss you!!if they don't call and ask about you then you just go on with your life!!!
2006-10-15 13:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ahh, just concentrate on your family hon.
2006-10-15 13:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋