I talk to 30 different girls at anygiven time. I am in most definitions a player. But 1 plagues me like no other. I talk to her and she talks to me. we get close. Even to the point of talking every night. then out of nowhere she acts like a total B and I am crushed and don't speak to her for a week. She calls me later and I usually ignore the first 4 or 5 calls, but eventually I answer when she leaves these really sad messages. She doesn't know I play anyone, so its not play the player. I don't understand why she has this hold on me. Help me anyone.
2006-10-15 06:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by bigsatdaddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you made a special connection with this gal compared to the others, that's why you are hurting. important that if you like this gal, you give her a chance with explaining herself, but after a while the sob stories will have to go....do you believe them? also, if you like her, you'd have to have the will to stop playing the games of ignoring phone calls, not calling that sort of thing. show her your real person, which is not always easy because it means you become vulnerable. anyway, if she continues to act like a B after you've done your part of being open to listening to her explanations, returning the phone calls, you need to set boundaries and say no more to this one. after all, if you meet that many ppl, i'm sure you'll find another special one....it may take some time cause that's why they are called 'special' because they don't come around all the time.
2006-10-15 06:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are so used to using people and being the one in control, that there's something about her that turns it around for you...perhaps you feel the need to be a victim from time to time, to make up for the victims you create when you hurt others with your behavior...
Karma coming back around to you perhaps? And you are right, you "let" her hurt you...if you decide not to, the situation will change or end...
2006-10-15 13:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u deserve this to happen to you, life is simply paying u back for playing on all these ppls emotions....hope it really sinks in
2006-10-15 13:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol
are you REALLY sure she dont know, coz i have a feeling she does!!
I hate players, so i aint got no sympathy for you what so ever!
2006-10-15 13:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes around comes around
2006-10-15 13:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by mimi22 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋